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Archived questions from: 25 September, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

How to deal with this situation of possibly dating a co-worker

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5332 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - Hello I was angry at a guy who is my colleague and did not talk to him because I thought he wasn't nice to me. Today the guy asked me:" to be friends and see where this will lead, also he said that we can meet each other outside our working plac...

What does he mean by "see him"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5336 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - Okay...Here is the thing.. 2 Days ago I got with this lad...or did I? confusing or what? Here's the full story. This lad asked me if I wanted to " see him" And I said yes...seems straight forward I no...But I don't understand what context he meant...

He is either red hot or ice cold!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5336 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - pls help, i'v got involved wit an old flame he is just out of a marriage i am just out of a long relationship. he has said from the start he doesnt want a relationship. he wine's n dine's me,takes me to club's pub's away for weekends treats me like ...

Do I give my ex bf another chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - I asked for advice at the beginning of this year when i had split with my ex boyfriend. I was in heartache and agony and was spiralling out of control, i had lost over a stone in weight when i discovered he'd been texting other women. this all ...

How are we supposed to date if he wants won't contact me...should I just move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - To make a VERY long story short, Me and ex were together for 2 years...so in love...moved in with each other...relationship went downhill, I had my own insecurities and I was clingy and jealous. He has his...needs video games, sports, friends, etc. ...

In love with her but she's not ready! How do I get over her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

25 September 2009 (M) - Hey, if anyone can give me any advice on this situation I will be incredibly grateful - its screwing up my head and my life and I need to do something to sort it out. Sorry this is such a long post - Im trying to sum up the most eventful six months ...

I'm really sad when I'm not with g/f..how do I overcome this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

25 September 2009 (M) - Hi, Been going out with gf for just under a year now and it's got to the stage where if I am really sad when I am not in her company, which is rediculously...well...rediculous. How do I make myself feel better when I am not in her company? ...

I know he doesn't want a relationship so whats going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - Hey! Im sorry for the length of this but i really need some help for my own benefit. I met someone must be two years ago now and liked him for a year and a half.I've never ever wanted a bf, yea ive liked someone but never thought anymore of it ...

I don't want to be another guy who breaks her heart, but I don't know how to be candid with her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

25 September 2009 (M) - Ok this one is really complicated I have this girlfriend,she's 22(and has a child) and I'm 18.We've been together for a month. We really like each other alot. Her heart as been broken many times, so she's lost all trust in men,so she think we...

Why do I feel jealous of his friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5335 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - Ok, today my boyfriend is going to hang out with some old friends, and I feel uneasy about this and jealous. I know I shouldn't, especially since it will probably be just the three of them. One of this guys lives in town, and they don't see each ...

Would a guy say they're single if they're not?

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25 September 2009 (F) - Hi this guy has a crush on me and has shown it for almost 3 months then he call me and I never answer him he left the following day, in early September I saw him again and we said hi, he still notice me he said "hey" and again i never answer ...

Guy with girlfriend very flirty..is that wrong?

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25 September 2009 (F) - is it wrong for a guy who has a girlfriend to be very flirty. I have met this guy and we are all stayin in univerisity halls, therefore he is away from his girlfrind but he is acting exceptionally flirty. I feel bad because I am enjoying the ...

The girl I used to bully wants to go on a date with me! Any ideas why she would want to?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - im slightly confused by this, i used to bully this girl when we were both 13-14 im a girl too (im not proud of it and i know its worng) now we are both 18 and i got a phone call from here saying that she forgives me for bullying her and wants to go ...

What if this girl finds out I still have feelings for my ex?

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25 September 2009 (M) - Basically, I like this girl. But still have feelings for my ex. Should i continue going for this girl i like or not because its unfair? And what if she were to know i still have feelings for my ex? what that affect alot of things?...

Why do I get upset when my boyfriend masturbates?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4347 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - I am wondering... why do i get so upset when my boyfriend masterbates? Why does it bug me he watches porn... i get so jealous as if he wants to be with those women on the porno and then he tells me sometimes he doesnt need porn and that its in his ...

Shall I go and talk to him even if he's a jerk and a liar?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - What is happening ? I and my boyfriend we are together since 2 years , recently I noticed that he became different person , he changed , like he doesn’t want me , if I hug him he said I hate hugging If I want sex , he said I hate sex , if I wanna ...

Is our love fixable after 20 yrs together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - We have been together for 20 years I am 40 and he is 39 . We were college sweethearts and very intensely in love. HE would play guitar and serenade me outside my window. Bring me flowers the whole thing. THen we had a child. I watch enough OPRAH to ...

Why does she dress to impress when I'm not around?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4635 days ago

25 September 2009 (M) - hey whats up guys and girls i need help i don't know what to do. my girlfriend always dresses nice when I'm not going to be around like when she goes to school or work or something she never wears nice things when i am. does she have something on ...

Caught in the crosshairs between best friend and her boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5337 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - Okay so I have a friend who I had been friends with for over a decade and we fell apart over a serious issue some time ago. I love her though she's the only person I care about (platonically) the way that I do. Now she had this boyfriend who treated ...

Once a cheater isn't always a cheater?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5337 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - a week ago my cousin told me she had slept with my bf. given the fact that he had cheated on me before, and that she is a very close cousin, even though he denied it. i still broke up with him. now i learn that she lied in order to break us up. cuz ...

He didn't tell me how old or sick he was, and I've me someone closer to my age

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - I am 62 years old (but a very young 62). I'm active, I exercise 5 times a week and everyone tells me I don't look my age. I'm in good health and take care of myself. Six years ago, my husband of 32 years passed away. Three years later I met a ...

What do you say to a person in this position who once meant everything to you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5332 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - Okay, deep breaths as I type this out. It's very long, but I felt I needed to give all the facts. I'd been best friends with this guy since we were seven. We were crazy close. We'd talk about anything and everything, always be around each othe...

Should I admit that I'm bi or keep it a secret from others?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

25 September 2009 (M) - hey everyone, im so frustrated. after getting dumped by my girlfriend, i felt relieved cuz things between us werent working out. after the events between us were over with, i didnt feel like being in a relationship anytime then i thought "what if ...

How do I overcome the bad boy syndrome?

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25 September 2009 (F) - help i do have a thing for fallin for guys with bad repuations like cheatin lyin etc.. but when this one guy in particular who has told me he is attracted to me even with his cheatin past isnt showin me attention cause i "played hard to get with ...

I'm afraid to commit to anything intense right now but I don't want to lose her!

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25 September 2009 (M) - I fell in love with a girl last year, and it was really exciting. but she had a boyfriend. she told me she felt the same way but couldn't do anything about it. it went pretty good and pretty bad during that time and my heart breaking on and off. ...

Should I try and get a relationship from him or just stay friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5334 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - Lately i havent been able to make up mind about a guy. But there are two guys who i have had feelings for, for a couple years now. One of them just hates me now so i just said that God was showing me it wasnt meant to be. The other guy is still ...

What is the best thing for everyone in this situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - I am overwhelmed. Nine months ago or so, who I thought was my best friend started dating the guy that I had a huge crush on for over three years. I know he wasn't an ex-boyfriend, but he was still a huge part of my past. He and I always had a mor...

How common is it for guys to try to push you into things sexually?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - ladies how common is it for guys to try and push you into things you don't want to do sexually or to atually force you-I've encountered a few guys like this and I want to know whether it's normal but girls just don't say that it's happened to them ...

Guys: Is monogomy a myth?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - guys have you ever been completly faithful to a woman throughout your relationship-I'm starting to wonder whether faithful men are a myth,all my boyfreinds have cheated...

Why was he so intensely into me only to drop me later?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - What is it with guys who come on so strong in the beginning, pursue you like crazy, get your hopes up so much and then just drop you like you never mattered at all? I met someone online and I seriously thought he had a lot of potential. The f...

How can I control my sexual urges better?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - I don't know exactly what I'm asking here, but I'll try to explain it. It's been a while since I've been in a relationship, about a year, and I don't really feel particularly lonely (although I would love to meet someone nice). My problem is that ...

I think I'm bisexual how can I tell my girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5337 days ago

25 September 2009 (M) - Hi guys, Im a 14 year old male and on the virge of turning 15. And i have a girlfriend who i love dearly,And i really enjoy beying with her. But with this comming of age ive realized and discovered many things about myself.....the thing is i maybe ...

Dreaming/fate/love

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5335 days ago

25 September 2009 (M) - If you have been talking to a girl for awhile , no big deal .Then one day you shake pinkies . And something goes right through you . Like a chill going up and down your spine.Only this was like I fell inlove with her . And please ,was not looking ...

I like this girl, yet I still have feelings for my ex.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5337 days ago

25 September 2009 (M) - My question is basic. I like this girl, yet i still have feelings for my ex. Should i go ahead with this relationship of this new girl or wait until i have fully got over my ex? And how would the girl i like take news of me still havi...

I want to enjoy my teenage years! How do I tell him I don't want to date him without upsetting him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5337 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - one of my realy good guy friends asked me out, but i dont want a relationship right now i just wana have fun and enjoy my teen years without strings atached, i wana be able to do what i want with who i want when i want! how do i tell him i dont wana ...

My boyfriend thinks I don't support him, I can't argue or I'll lose him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5215 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - OK, me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months. I really love him and we have a good sex life. But hes so immature at times. and the problem I face now is nearly losing him. Today he had an argument with my best friend, my best fr...