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Archived questions from: 29 September, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

What are you meant to do if the guy you like finally notices you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - Omg. I really need someones help. What are you meant to do if the guy you like (whos drop dead gorgeous, 2 years above you.. in sixth form and perfect) actually finally notices you? He was flirting with me at my brothers 18th (not verbally, but ...

Should I pursue it and give him signals back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - I am 25, a single mum and rescently gone back in to education. I think my teacher fancies me. He focuses on me in every lesson, he asks me questions through out in front of the class and quietly asks my opinions on things when the rest of the clas...

Do you think a relationship is possible? We had the most amazing sex ever.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5332 days ago

29 September 2009 (M) - Last night, I had the most amazing night of my sexual life. I met a man, who is 33, and I am 18. I've always had a thing for charming older men, and he fits definitely fits that status quo. However, one thing I did not expect to happen, was for my ...

Am I wrong for pursuing her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

29 September 2009 (M) - Weird situation I guess. There are two girls involved. I shall refer to them as just A and B. A I am very close with, and I once started pursuing her as a possible romantic interest which just wasn't to be. B I have started to really like, and...

Do you think she'll give me another chance even though I cheated?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

29 September 2009 (M) - me and my ex met wen i was 18 and she was 16 we was going out for about six months wen she told me she loved me and i felt the same but about a month later one of her friends started texting me and we became close i ended up seeing both of them on ...

Where's the passion?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5331 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - Hello I have been in a relationship for 3 years. Our sex life is not that great, the passion is gone. And to honest Ive never been satisfied..(He is my first) But what bothers me is that there is no passion. I want a man who really wants it f...

His past is littered with ex girlfriends and I'm scared!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5332 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - I was hoping someone might lend some insight to this -- I've been someone who has been rather picky about relationships and most have been all very serious. I will go out on first dates but if I don't see a potential first dates turn into last ...

How do I keep my relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5330 days ago

29 September 2009 (M) - I arrived to Bogota at 2008 and since then I started relating to women because I am divorced. I met a woman who was also divorced and with two children. She was living with a man but I did not know . I tried to coquer her and it was p...

Boyfriend obsessed with my boobs!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm not sure what to do about my boyfriend. He is obsessed with my boobs, to the point where it's stupidly irritating. I only see him at weekends, usually Friday to 7am Monday, and during that time he touches them as often as he can....

Leaving for the military in 4 months, start a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

29 September 2009 (M) - Ok...I just want opinions on what you guys would do. There is this girl im really diggen,right, problem is, in 4 months I leave for the military. I've been just playing it cool with her because I personally feel it would be selfish to start a relati...

Why do girls look for robot guys?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

29 September 2009 (M) - Why every girls hate emotional guys? Why they look for robot in guys? Would anyone like to guide me on this? Zahir, Pakistan...

Relationship Crisis: he cheated but I want it to work!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - So this month has been my worst month ever, boyfriend cheated on me and everything. I took him back we had a long conversation and I told him that it will be a long time for me to trust him and I continue to ask him to keep 100 with me all the time. ...

What do you reckon he wants?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - Hey everyone! just need some advice here. I have been in a relationship with this guy for almost seven months now. It is long distance but nothing terrible and over the summer I broke up with him because he was acting as if he wanted out himself ...

Any ideas on how to make things better between us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - Ok here is the issue, my boyfriend thinks that I act like a 26 year old child. I will admit that at times I do act like a irrational. I have asked him what he wants me to do to change the issues in the relationship, which I am willing to do. The ...

Is this a case of "we love each other but can't be together"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5332 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - I am a recently divorced, 40 year old woman who lives in a small town - my former husband and I are good friends, and I am well-respected in the community. In June of '08 I was reconnected with a local man, he's 51, because we have a few ...

Should I work on it or leave it now before it gets worse?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5332 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - I've been dating this guy for 15 months now. I am so sure that I am in love with him and I was so sure he felt the same way. But at times he gets mad over something and decides to change his mind. The last time we fought he told me he didn't thi...

He always threatens to break my face and I cry. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - hi my name is piya(24)dating(28)for the past 1.5 years.we love each other a lot and he promised me to marry me.but for the past few months are relationship has turned completely sour.we love each other like mad and cant do without each other.hes got ...

I finally plucked some courage to talk to him but how do I keep it going?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5332 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - hey!!!i talked a lot about the huge crush i had on this really cool boy(who really liked me too) and i said before i never talked to him cause whenever he tries 2 talk 2 me i do anything to stop it cause im too too too shy. in this summer break...

Trying to chose between 2- one older, one younger

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

29 September 2009 (M) - which to choose between 2 women: one is abt 10 yrs older than me, very sweet giving person also fun to be with,but towards whom I have lost all physical attraction. the other is 10 yrs younger than me , very attractive, passionate and loyal but ...

G/f is messing about with 3 of us

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

29 September 2009 (M) - My Girlfriend is messing me about and has 3 other people she has feelings for i asked her where that left me and her relationship but she never gave me a proepr anwser wot do i do?...

Ask him out? Or wait for him to ask me out?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - Hi everyone. Simple question- should i ask out a guy that i like or wait for him to ask me out? We are friends and a few of my friends say there is a chance he likes me from some of his behaviour. I don't want to jeapordise the friendship but w...

What do you make of his behaviour? I really like him but he is acting really weird!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - Hey There, I've been having a problem and i really need your help! Basically there's this guy i've been liking on and off for a long while and only recently have we started chatting. But he can be very confusing in his signals..you see i really want ...

He knows I like him so why hasn't he developed feelings for me yet?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - Hello :D okay so I have been close friends with a guy for a few months now, at one point I liked him, I told him, he said he loved me, but only as a close friend. I then moved on with him, which I was really happy about. I moved onto other guys and...

How do I talk about sex with my girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

29 September 2009 (M) - Hiii....i'm 18 year old boy i'm in true love with a girl.we are enjoying with each other but i feel shy in talking about sex with her,she too never asked me anything about sex but now i think we must talk about sex and have some sexual ...

Why don't guys like to talk about feelings or their exs?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - why don't guys like to open up and talk about their ex or talk about feelings in general? My guy recently broke up with his girlfriend of 8 months (i think it was because of me and the fact it was a long distance relationship) but he still say...

How can I deal with girlfriend's past

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

29 September 2009 (M) - My girlfriends past bothers me alot. I know so much about her past and I always get these images that pop into my head of her doing things with other guys and its all I think about. Just looking at her kills me sometimes. The one time that has ...

Can't make it work with guys my age, is something wrong with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - I have a thing for guys younger than me. Not like it's illegal or anything. The guys I'm talking about are both 19, and I'm 23. I've tried dating guys my age or older, and it's always something. I just find that the younger guys are easier to ...

I'm so cunfused with this girl, help....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

29 September 2009 (M) - Hi everyone I'm going to try to make it as short as possible. Ok I met this girl she was really into me I can tell. She would come down and hangout even though she live 1 hr away. We hung out in groups so it wasn't like a date but I like her s...

Was our relationshp sabotaged?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5333 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - My guy and I dated for a year and were about to commit exclusively to a long-term relationship Without any warning,and perplexed by his sudden change of heart, I knew something went wrong. Just before he abruptly broke off with me, a male co-wo...

She tickled my palm..what does that mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

29 September 2009 (M) - IM 18 and this girl i like told me she like me very much and today while we were sitting in the car she tickled the palm of my hand i want to know what you think she want from me...

What can I do about a boyfriend that hates my past?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - What can I do? My boyfriend hates my past, I never did something wild, but there was a mutual friend involved. It happened before I met my boyfriend. Then that same friend introduced me to my boyfriend. Then after 6 months my boyfriend asked me ...

How should I react to him hugging me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5333 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - This guy I know and I are not that close, but were friendly. We sit together in class, and have a few mutual friends, and its not awkward to talk to him outside of those two situations. Recently he's been hugging Me and random moments, like it makes ...

How can I help my boyfriend get better at oral sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - So my boyfriend needs help giving oral sex. He's got the right attitude and loves doing it, but to be honest he's not very good at it. The thing is I've never had it done well so I have no idea what to tell him. Can some people give things to do ...

How can I stop lying to my boyfriend and regain his trust?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - I have a serious problem that is causing havoc in my relationship. I have been lying to my boyfriend about money being spent and not telling him about it, taking things like my cell phone without asking him if i can use it and taking him for ...

How can I truly make this relationship work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - hi...i'm an 18 year old female in a complicated relationship. it all started last year when i met a guy at my college. we clicked instantly and became very good and close friends. he had a girlfriend at the time, but told me they were on the rocks ...

Will a sexual relationship enhance our love for each other?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5333 days ago

29 September 2009 (M) - I'm 18 years old and i love a girl and she too loves me but i never had a french kiss with her altough i have kissed her a few times on her cheeks.Actually i want to know is it good to have sexual relationship with her,i have never asked her ...

Girls: Can you help give me a female perspective?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

29 September 2009 (M) - Hi i'm 18 years old and i'm a virgin the problem is that i have a slightly curved penis, its a bit curved downwards and very little to the left ,its very little curve not a big one.this makes me a bit distressed.Altough i have read many topics ...

Questionable relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - I have been dating this guy for 3 months.He is a widow, and I am divorced.We seem to really like each other, but I am still wondering what to make of the relationship.I travel to see him, and we email everyday.But, I am still wondering how he feels ...

How can I ask her out without seeming pushy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

29 September 2009 (M) - Alright heres the deal.. Theres this girl i like, and have liked for a while now, shes 15 and im 14. She is also a grade ahead of me. She said she likes me.. But heres where i get held up.. About 4 months ago i asked her out not knowing if she...

Why is he so extreme?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - Everytime my b/f and I have an argument, instead of us calmly discussing what went wrong and solving it like two mature adults, he starts shouting at the top of his lungs, trying shift the blame to someone other than himself, and then when he can't ...

Are there any devoted and patient guys still out there?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - frustrated...im 19 years old and i think i am attractive the thing about it is ive never really been serious with a guy... and im wondering if theres any good guys out there that is still devoted and patient to wait for a girl who is only gonna ...

Should I worry about being pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - Alright. So I met this guy about a month or so ago that works with my mom..This sounds really bad but he is only 19, I will be 18 in October...he already has a baby that is 13 months old. Well..my mom decided to let me start staying the nigh...

My boyfriend's brother molested him! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - hi i need help with my boyfriend he was molested when he was n little boy by his brother at the age of 7 to 9 and at the age of 12 he was molested again by a man in the hostel and now he is like a angry bom at work and with me and i really wanne ...

How can I get out of this without ruining relationships or breaking anybody's heart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - their is a boy [friend] and we a kinda way involved..and we know each other for 2 years now. and it have been a while now i have been flirting with his friend. [like really sexy flirting] and my friend told me he don`t want to share me with anyone. ...

Are these Red Flags serious? I don't want another abuser.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - Hello, I've just recently gotten out of an abusive relationship. Therefore, I'm very sensitive about people's intentions. I recently met someone, and he seems very nice, but there are two red flags I want to address: After our first date he's ...