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Archived questions from: 26 September, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Is my BF ashamed of me? He won't hold my hand in public or tell his friends we're dating.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

26 September 2009 (F) - My bf won't hold my hand in public! We have been together for two months and last night we went out to the store and I went to grab his hand and he 'acted' like he needed to grab something and let go of my hand. We held hands for less than 30 ...

Should I stay and be with number 2 or go home and be with number 1???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

26 September 2009 (F) - My problem is that, About 4 years ago I was with a great man who adored me. We were together for 2 years but I really wasn't ready for the relationship at the time and made the worst mistake and cheated on him near the end of the relationship (which ...

I am undecided about children, meanwhile he just had a vasectomy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

26 September 2009 (F) - I am in a nearly year long relationship with a man I love. He is absolutely wonderful to me in so many ways, and we seem to click. I am a few years younger than him, just finishing my Master’s degree, and still deciding what I want to do with ...

Why why why?????

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

26 September 2009 (F) - Ok I asked a question some hours ago... I'm having so many problems understanding this, and I just feel so bad! The thing is, I had lied to my boyfriend in the beginning of my relationship, and ever since he has judged me for being a liar, but last ...

The problem that's surfacing right now is a recurring one - blowjobs!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

26 September 2009 (F) - Recently, my boyfriend and I have been hitting some... impasses. This is a source of some grief for me, because otherwise, our eight-month relationship has suffered no rough spots whatsoever. We don't get into screaming matches or even real fights - ...

Was I wrong to email him and confront him about our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

26 September 2009 (F) - I have been seeing a guy for a few months now. Initially, we would go out on dates etc. He was always busy, but did make time for me and our dates Recently, we began to just hang out around his apartment more...instead of going out... which was ...

I just can't trust him, should I even bother to keep trying?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5335 days ago

26 September 2009 (F) - So here's my situation, i've been dating my boyfriend for a while now and I really love him a lot. But, I can't trust him, and I want to. He has done so many sneaky things behind my back and that makes me think he doesn't care what I think or how I ...

Do I just walk up to a girl and introduce myself? Maybe I'll miss that chance if I don't!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

26 September 2009 (M) - I keep seeing really pretty girls walking down the streets of New York City. Often we make eye contact and sometimes they smile at me. Is there any point to stop and introduce myself and talk to them or are women not receptive to meeting ...

I get really jealous and insecure when I see my girl talkig to other guys

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5335 days ago

26 September 2009 (M) - Hi Aunts and Uncles, I need some advice on beating jealousy and insecurities. I'm seeing a very attractive, very outgoing girl which is the complete opposite to me (I'm very ugly and very shy and no I don't need any sympathy I'm happy being that...

She wants to be with me...minus the sex! Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

26 September 2009 (M) - Hey, Really confused here. Basically, me and my girlfriend broke up 2 months ago due to 2 things really. She completetly lost interest in sex/couply thing. Before you say im shallow blah blah blah im not. Secondly we were constantly fig...

How do I find out if he's single and interested in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5334 days ago

26 September 2009 (F) - I have met this guy at a club I go to, once a month. But I met him and another girl who seem to be good friends but i cant tell whether they are dating...they seem to know each other quite well. However, he seemed kinda interested in me?! Im very ...

I want revenge..how do I make this guy look stupid?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

26 September 2009 (F) - Hi im gonna put it simply, i want revenge on an ex boyfriend Now i know people will say that just getting over him will be enough and that i should move on and make him realise what he's missing. And no offense but ive tried that Im far t...

How do I get this guy to 'fall' for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5335 days ago

26 September 2009 (F) - Hey... I'm 17years old and fancy a really good friend of mine, we live on the same corridor at our schools hall of residence and get on so well. He's cute, funny, sweet, caring, everything I could ever want. No only that, he has pulled me o...

I really like him I just don't know what to do next

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5335 days ago

26 September 2009 (F) - I will try and keep it short as I can. I'm shy and I like a shy guy and I thought he liked me so I asked him out - so scary btw! Anyway he said yes, we went out he text me later to say he had a nice time, I asked him again and we went out, again I ...

Was her text normal or a hidden love message?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5335 days ago

26 September 2009 (M) - Hi friends, Please clarify this doubt of mine. I know a neighbourhood girl for about a year. I have her mobile number and she has mine. She was the one to start sending me forwarded SMS's. I too send her forwarded SMS's quite regularly. F...

Should I learn to trust my girlfriend despite all her lies, or should I throw in the towel and give up on this love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5335 days ago

26 September 2009 (M) - my girlfriend and i met when we were 15 and 16. i was a virgin, she had sex with one other guy. lets just say we were really attracted to each other and we had sex a week and a half after we met. (before we even started dating). we started ...

How can I tell whether married co-worker fancies me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

26 September 2009 (M) - Hello. This may seem a little arrogant but I'm increasingly starting to feel that this married woman at work may fancy me but is doing her best to try and convey that she doesn't. Is there any way of telling without being confrontational? I know ...

His family doesn't like me because I'm not Italian?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

26 September 2009 (M) - I'm dating a guy whose an American Italian and comes from an all American Italian Family. They even own their own Italian Restaurant - 3 generations. He's the 3rd generation. Be educated and tons of experience in the industry. I get asked a lot ...

Any advice toe help my stressed boyfriend with?

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26 September 2009 (F) - Okay so my boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year and a half. We are extremely happy and we are planning our lives together. The only thing is that lately he has been having a bunch of problems at home. His parents have been getting ...

Have you ever regretted not kissing someone when the chance was there?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5336 days ago

26 September 2009 (M) - Have any of you regretted not kissing someone when the light was there? If you're reading this. Please don't be afraid... Yeah, that person speeds your heart somehow. Makes you tongue tied. Nervous. Butterflies, etc... But I'm telling you. D...

Am I only interesting when I'm unavailable?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5335 days ago

26 September 2009 (F) - So this guy has been waiting for an opportunity to ask me out and even waited through my last relationship for me all the while reassuring me everything would all work out BUT of course he also mentioned everything he would do differently if I were ...

I want to get married but marriage is out of the question for him

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

26 September 2009 (F) - I have been with the same man for almost seven years now. I am almost 24 and he is 27. i love him very much, but I feel I have given this relationship enough of my time. What I mean by that is that is I want to get married. He loves me very much, ...

Dating my stepbrother and keeping it a secret from our parents

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

26 September 2009 (F) - Is it ok for me to date my stepbrother? My mom and step dad have known each other for a while now and got married last year. I have known my step brother for almost ten years now but I have never considered him as a brother. We have lived together ...

Any tips on writing a love letter?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

26 September 2009 (M) - I would like to write a love letter to my gf. We have been together for 6 months and to it cool. I want to take our relationship to the next level. Any tips for writing a love letter? Should I mention the possibility of sex and that I would like ...

Do I ignore him or keep being mself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

26 September 2009 (F) - I like this man at my work.(plz NO comments on office romance) Things have been going good btwn us lots of flirting and talking getting to know eachother kinda deal.He did tell me hes totally single and from what ive heard he really isnt seeing ...

What did she really mean with this note?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5336 days ago

26 September 2009 (M) - So, theres this girl in my 9th grade english and P.E. class, we get along well, and i walk her to her bus and classes, i flirt alot with her she flirts alot with me, and today we did our first note pass during english, she passed a note that said ...

Can I take this guy seriously?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5335 days ago

26 September 2009 (F) - so i met this guy at the end of july. our first date was a blind date, but the blind date was amazing. we had a conversation nonstop for 3 hours in his car. we have been dating (nonexclusive) ever since and we have perfect chemistry, our humor is ...

How can I attract a flighty woman at work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5336 days ago

26 September 2009 (M) - Hi. Okay so I fancy a woman at work. Problem is though that she is rather friendly to just about all the guys. She is a little bit 'flighty' (not to be confused with flirty!). Does anyone out there know how to attract a flighty woman? Are they ...