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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey everybody,I have a small problem thats been on my mind for a couple days. i am at college, and last year i met a friend up here who ended up being really cool and we git it off pretty well. eventually, we stopped talking and didnt talk the whole last semester. this year, i texted her after 6 months of not talking and i was joking with her about how she should date me instead of gettind tied up with her old BF (whos an asshole). She said she had a crush on me since last year, and we made plans to hang out that saturday night. So, we chilled, talked, caught up, and then went to a party. we had a couple drinks (not sloshed, dont worry) and then she said she didnt want to drive home so she stayed at my dorm. Instead of making her sleep on the fouton, i told her to sleep in my bed with me (cause she didnt want to sleep there all by herself ;)...) and i asked her a little bit after she got in "so, you still got that crush on me?" she said yes and we started fooling around for a while. after like 2 hours of that (no sex or oral... also i did more to her then she did to me?) we stopped and started talking about stuff. i told her how i havent had sex in 3 years, i like her alot, and if i was to have sex wit anyone it would be her, wich she seemed cool with. she talked about some stuff too, then went to bed. When we woke up it was cool but she didnt kiss me, so i told her im sorry if i was too forward the night before, and she said "its cool, it wasnt awkward or anything" and then she left a little later.Now, this is the part that confuses me. She texted me later that day and said i gave her some hickies (haha like 4 oops) and we talked for a bit then she said her phone was gonna die and shed text me later, but never did. i said whatever and then texted her the next day, asking her if she wanted to chill at the end of the conversation. She said: "my friend said she wanted to hang out, but i never know until the last minute" so i told her i needed to do some homework and to let me know later. she said "ok ill let you know" but yet again, never did. this was yesterday, and i havent texted her at all today, im planning on not texting her till she texts me.so, im wondering, did i do anything wrong the night before?? why is she not texting me when she says she will later? Do you think she was just "trying to get some ass" then ditch me? or is she playing hard to get? idk what to think so any help would be awesome!!
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (16 September 2009):
 My guess is she's playing hard to get. But I'd still let her be the first to contact you since after all it is her turn. I don't think you did anything wrong it is just a matter of whether you guys are clicking if you get my drift. Good luck I hope things work out for you.
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