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Archived questions from: 19 September, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Any sexual fantasies about him have evaporated due to his size. Is this shallow?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

19 September 2009 (F) - This is directed mainly at other women Hi, I've been out on a few dates with a guy and I'm ready to take it futher than just kissing if you know what I mean. However, the other day he was round at my house, I put my hand down his pants and h...

I'm in a jam....does he like me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

19 September 2009 (F) - well me and this boy we flirt a lot i think and we always smile at each other and im always hitting him and flicking him {ps i like him so i flirt} and we get into these fake arguements.... and on friday he kept hitting me with this air hockey thing ...

Queasy around girls?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5342 days ago

19 September 2009 (M) - whenever i am in a relationship and the girl wants to hang out i get really really queasy. Then recently this happend and i broke up with her... then later she kissed me and i didnt feel queasy....

Am I going to have to just keep waiting and dreaming?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5342 days ago

19 September 2009 (F) - hey i am 16 and have never had a boyfriend, well i say never i have had silly boyfriends that have lasted about a week, i have never even kissed a boy or anything. does that makeme fridgid? there have beenlots of guys ilike but i have never had t...

How can we learn to fight fair? He says mean things.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

19 September 2009 (F) - okay well I've been having a problem with my boyfriend. Well yesterday we got into a very heated fight, that lead to him twisting my words around completely and sccusing me of breaking up with him. I tried to explain to him what I meant but it was ...

Sudden change in partner, and I want to feel comfortable

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

19 September 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm feeling a little confused and it's stressing me out. Over the course of the summer, I dated a girl who lived locally to me. The relationship was a little turbulent. There were a number of things we disagreed on, but we persisted, knowi...

Am I being unreasonable in asking him to stop this behavior?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

19 September 2009 (F) - I have an issue with my boyfriend who gives a light kiss on the lips of a married woman every time he passes her. He said it was just a game that they played before he started dating me. This has been over a year and he continues to do this. I ...

I don't wanna lose him forever but I know I will if I leave.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5340 days ago

19 September 2009 (F) - Hey cupids, i hope someone can help me. I've been going out with my boyfriend for over three years now and I'm afraid I've just fallen out of love with him. I still love him, but I'm not in love with him.And its really difficult because recently ...

Why can't he quit smoking???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5341 days ago

19 September 2009 (F) - So heres the thing. I've been with my now ex boyfriend,TJ, for almost 2 years. I really do love him. Honestly, I do. But he has a huge problem with lying, usually about the smallest things! I went out with a guy last year, after breaking up with TJ. ...

I feel my girlfriend treats me like shit!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4113 days ago

19 September 2009 (M) - hey whats up guys and girls i need help i dont know what to do. my girlfriend always dresses nice when im not going to be around and she never wears nice things when i am does she have something on the side, is she cheating on me is she going to ...

Been on two dates. How do I get him to sleep with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

19 September 2009 (F) - We went out on a first two dates a few days ago and i just found out that we have so much in common. Today he invited me to his house for tonight ... but since we went out on a first dates and he wasnt making any moves towards me and when it came to ...

I'm letting her set the pace, but I'm not sure if she's being candid about what she's comfortable with

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

19 September 2009 (M) - Ok, so i have a question and asking for any tips.advice out there. I have been with my GF for almost a year now, and have not done anything sexually, except sometimes it seems like shes rubbing onto me while were makig out(if its sitting shes sit on ...

If you're 16 do you have the right to get engaged?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

19 September 2009 (F) - Im 16, my boyfriend and i have been together for year+ , he is amazing and ive never felt in away towards anyone as i do for him, hes helped me through so much, we've talked about engagement but we just dont want to cause the drama with our parents, ...

What's next when the relationship with a drunkard boyfriend comes to an end but still continues........

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

19 September 2009 (F) - I was in relationship with a guy who was 6 years younger than me and drunkard. We went around for almost 1 and 1/2 years. We shared a good chemestry but I didn't understand why he had refused my proposal of getting married with him. From the day ...

I'm shy and self-conscious about facial hair

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

19 September 2009 (F) - Help i'm in need of advice. Im a 24 year old girl and i have never had a boyfriend, i know a big reason for this is my shyness. It is something that stems from constant bullying i received in many high schools (my family moved around abit when...

Do I? Don't I? ......Responding would be much apreciated :)

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5342 days ago

19 September 2009 (F) - Ok, i need a 2nd opinion on this. Recently i have got really close with "jim" at school, and people have told me he likes me, apparently its really obvious, like the way he stared at me with my ex(we broke up recently), the way he looks at me, the...

Should I trust that he really will quit smoking weed?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

19 September 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for 4 years. I just found out last week he has been smoking weed about once/week on and off for the past year and 1/2. Long story short, he told me all about it, and after a lot of crying I gave him the ...

I was told he liked me, but he hasn't replied to my message

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19 September 2009 (F) - Ok so hear's the problem.I've had this crush on this guy for as long as i can remember.a few months ago his dad let it slip that he liked me to my dad.and for the first time in a long time i felt really happy.then quite a lot of problems got in the ...

Insensitive girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5342 days ago

19 September 2009 (M) - I am in relatively new relationship. It has been a month since we told each other how we felt. We had two great weeks were I have been floating on a cloud of happiness. Then things started going south since. She stopped sending me any "I miss u" ...

My boyfriend is wearing bikinis and wants a bikini wax

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

19 September 2009 (F) - My boyfriend told me he had something interesting to tell me last night, and I was interested to hear what it was. He announced he wanted a bikini wax and that I should have one too (or a Brazilian wax too), if he is. I don't get it - men don'...

Boyfriend's personality completely changes online

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5342 days ago

19 September 2009 (F) - I've been dating a man for about six months, and things between us are fine when we're speaking to each other in person. He acts like a gentleman, and we get along wonderfully. The problems surface whenever we're speaking online, a different side of ...

We want to have a baby, I'm almost 17!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

19 September 2009 (F) - Well I'm very confused. im extremely happy with my boyfriend, we've basically been together for a year and ive never in my life felt for anyone the way i feel about him, i understand this sounds typical for a 16 (almost 17) year old girl to say, but ...

My girlfriend refuses to wax her upper lip hair, and it is my one major turn off. Now I don't feel attracted to her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

19 September 2009 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for nearly 6 years now, and I love her deeply. She has always gotten a lot of upper lip hair, but she usually will wax it over time. Now however, she said she's done waxing and doesn't feel like she needs to. I kno...

I want to feel comfortable with this sudden change in partner. How can I stop stressing out over it?

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I'm 20 years old and I've never been on a date...can someone give me advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

19 September 2009 (M) - Ok. I'm 20 years, and I never have been on a date. Not even just for hanging out. My whole life I have been a nerd and I often was not seen as very attractive by most people growing up. I didn't date in high school cause all the girls seemed ...

How do I get him to confess his feelings for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

19 September 2009 (F) - ok so there is this guy who is my friend. He has feelings for me but he ain't going to confess his feelings for me. He thinks that i don't know he has feelings for me, the truth is i know he has feelings for me. Since he is not going to confess, ...

She's committed to him but we sleep naked together. What is going on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

19 September 2009 (F) - I met a girl whom I honestly believe is The One for me. We were dating for barely 3 weeks when she told me that she was seeing another man. I accepted that and continued on with the "relationship" because we never said we were exclusive, and t...

I'm driving myself insane over mental images of him with her. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

19 September 2009 (F) - Long, but needed.. My boyfriend and I have been together 8 months today. We have an amazing relationship. We've had only a couple minor confrontations, and we always try to make each other smile. He's been living with me for about 3-4 weeks now, a...

I worry that he still likes her in the back of his mind. How do I get over it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

19 September 2009 (F) - i am having a totally nice and cute and decent boyfriend.i am truly lucky to have him. he was asking out a girl who we both see everyday.she is a beauty but a true ***** who changes guys everytime she wants and would go anywhere with any guy if ...

Should I break up with her? I feel like it's now or never.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

19 September 2009 (M) - Me and my gf been together for 8 months. very wierd relationship, it was rocky from the start but I decided to move away about 3months into it and broke up with her. we started going out again 3 days later and the relationship has never been better. ...

Am I being needy or is she just a lousy girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

19 September 2009 (M) - Okay, in a nut shell... My cousin set me up with her best friends sister, which I went to highschool with and knew of but had never actually met. I am now three years out of highschool and in University(21) She is also at the same university a...

What is he thinking? Does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5343 days ago

19 September 2009 (F) - i met this guy like 2 months ago our moms have being best friends since the were little but they dont live were i do so i had never met him. when i first met him i really liked him and then we saw each other again and i discovered that i had a huge ...