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Archived questions from: 5 September, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

How can I stop obsessing over my girlfriend?

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5 September 2009 (M) - I know the title is a little bit misleading, but I find myself obsessing a little bit too much over my girlfriend. I am a 21 year old male and she is a little bit younger than I am. I care a lot for my girlfriend. We've been dating for about 6 ...

I'm 20 and parents won't let me date!

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5 September 2009 (F) - I am 20 years old and I am still with my high school sweet-heart. Our relationship began 4 years ago and we feel to be really in love til' this day. I really love him and wouldn't doubt spending the rest of my life with him, we have been going to ...

Simple question: how can one end a relationship without the hurt?

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5 September 2009 (F) - how can u breakup with somebody without it hurting you or the other person ...

How can my girlfriend and I adjust our ways to eachother?

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5 September 2009 (M) - my gal frnd is very caring and loves me alot but she is very silly gal will feel bad and get angry on me even for a small thing even if i insist her not to do the things which i dont like.even though im taller than her she always insists me to grow ...

Girlfriend hesitant to have sex and not sure why

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5 September 2009 (M) - (Edited by moderator) any way Simply i want to ask why could it be that my girlfriend would not like to have sex with me. I love her, really love her but i also want some satisfaction.. She gives me time,no doubt, allows me to kiss, but she...

I am scared of new guys, is it because of never voicing things to my ex crush or why??

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5 September 2009 (F) - hey :) ok this is will be long but i could really use some help so please take the time to read it :) basically i like loved this guy *bob* for 3 years. its crazy, it started way back in year 10 as just a crush, and then it got so much deeper, i ...

My parents won't let me go out!

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5 September 2009 (F) - Okay,so im 15 about to be 16 in 2 weeks and me an my bf have been dating for 5 months now but we never get to hang out outside of school and im afraid he'll break up with me because of this. My parents don't think I'm of age to be dating even tho...

In love with my best girl friend, what can I do?

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5 September 2009 (M) - I've known this one girl for a few years now; since our freshman year of high school. We're now second year students at a community college and are both getting into the workforce straight after. I've had a thing for her since I first met her an...

I'm so confused about the way relationships work...

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5 September 2009 (F) - Hey im so counfused about everything how relastionships work How they start Where do couples go or do usualy I never had a proper relastionship and im 17!!! I have no answer and watching my mums relastionships didn't help me the way I am now I am...

Why do I feel she is too good for me?

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5 September 2009 (M) - Hi!, So, I have been in love with this girl who became my best friend (I am male) after over half a year, and I suspected that she may have feelings for me too but because of past pains she is reluctant to, I guess let them surface. Rec...

My friend is getting too close to my boyfriend, how can I stop it?

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5 September 2009 (F) - Last year, my friend and my boyfriend got really close together, going out together, texting each other spontaneously, playfully touching each other in front of me, to a point where I felt like crap and like any other human being, I felt a sting of ...

I am sick of just being his "friend"!

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5 September 2009 (F) - Hello :) Okay so I have this close guy friend who I am quite literally crazy about. I have known him for about 6 months now. The problem is he is a huge player, and an even bigger flirt, he will flirt with any girl whatsoever. But I really like him...

Argh! He is always fluctating, and I don't know if I should let him know I like him!

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5 September 2009 (F) - Why would a guy text you only to get questions answered? Last night I accidently texted him that someone liked someone else and he texted back answering who is this person and who is that. I answered who the girl was but I didn't tell him who the ...

Should I let it go because he strikes me as emotionally unavailable like my ex husband?

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5 September 2009 (F) - I was married for 18 years to a man who was emotionally unavailable. I don't think he was even capable of any depth of feeling or love. I have been divorced for four years now, and it has been lonely. I met a man four weeks ago who I thought ...

I'm emotionally confused,and I tested the water to see if he would come running back

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5 September 2009 (M) - Hey everyone, this site is new to me, so lets see how this works out. I am a gay male and I have been dating my partner for 10 months now, its been the greatest 10 months, complete with roller coasters, emotional confusion the works of a long-...

I want him to be with me, but he is made to feel so guilty by his ex. Is he scared? How can I help?

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5 September 2009 (F) - His ex causes him pain and distress. They split up officially 4 months ago and he has been emotionally involved with me for 7 months. He told me he had feelings for me and really, really wanted to know if I felt the same, he gave me time to ...

He talks of 'us' seriously. But is it a huge redflag if my boyfriend never compliments me?

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5 September 2009 (F) - This might seem like a really egotistical question, and perhaps it is, but nonetheless it is something that bothers me. With every partner I've been with, I've always told them what I found attractive about them, from the beginning when you form the...

Why she didn't say I'm meeting my boyfriend? What does it mean?

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5 September 2009 (M) - Hey, just after a second opinion please. I met this stunning/amazing girl this week, we worked together well in a task we were set and got on really well (have similar interests, views, styles, experiences etc etc). When we had to head of she aske...

What should I do? My relationship is plagued by my love for my old bestfriend!

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5 September 2009 (M) - Hi i don't really know how to start this but ill start here. I used to have this really good friend (best friend) who was a girl. We used to hangout all the time and each time would be amazing. I often thought of it as love at the time. Well one day ...

I don't like the idea of her going out with her cousin as she will get hit on all night. It winds me up, what to do?

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5 September 2009 (M) - I am going out tonight so is my Girlfriend. I was m going to stay in with her cause she asked me too but I feel as if I had to go to my friends party as he is 21. Now my girlfriend is going out with her cousin who gets about and she will have...

It's fading , but online boy wants a second chance? Should I give him one?

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5 September 2009 (M) - Hai there to whoever is reading this..I hope you can help me on this one.I have a boyfriend,yes,i am THAT.Anyway,he is 3 years younger than me,and im 19.We dont see each other that much,let alone talking.We only talk online.There are times when we ...

She cheated, should I go back with her?

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5 September 2009 (M) - Hi my name is Tyrome I have been going with this girl shana for 8 months we were both friends before we started going out.Before we started going out we did everything together we joke we went out to eat at places everything except sex back wen we ...

Should I go for this guy, or accept it as impossible and drop it?

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5 September 2009 (F) - So i really like this guy who most likely returns the feelings, and on top of that, we're already friends, so it's perfect. Plus he's adorable. Although there's two major problems: i only know him because he's one of my best friend's(a guy) brother. ...

Dating one month and it seems like he doesn't feel anything very deep for me

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5 September 2009 (F) - I have been dating a guy for one month. I was so happy the first two weeks--it seemed like we had such a connection, and he was romantic and passionate. Now, after just a month it seems like the newness has worn off already. I feel like he is ...

He asked me what I want from him, but I am so confused about our relationship!

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5 September 2009 (F) - Okay(breath)- I am so confused about my relationship with my boyfriend. First of all, I should mention that I am 31 yrs old and this is what I would consider my first real bf. I suffer from extreme anxiety and esteem issues. Bearing this in mind, I ...

How do I ask her to be my girlfriend? All the boys like her!

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5 September 2009 (M) - hi, i'm 13 and i live in india. i really like a girl and i want to propose her for being my girlfriend. while playing truth and dare she said that she likes some other boy. i'm planning to propose her after a few days when my braces get off. ...

Should I be mad or is she just nervous about not having a plan for the future besides getting married?

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5 September 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for over 6 years. I will be graduating in a few months and will be taking a very good job near where we grew up. I decided to live w/my parents to save money. My gf will graduate the sememster after me. I ...

Should we just keep things friendly for now because of the age difference?

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5 September 2009 (F) - I recently met a guy at work who is 24. We have gone on several dates and text one another almost daily. He knows that I am 17 for five more months, but has said multiple times he will wait for me. We are very similar and get along so well, but ...

How could she hurt me like that

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5 September 2009 (F) - My best friend and i were at the movies one night and the guy i really really really, times 1 billion, really like was there. During our movie him and his friend came in and they were talking and she leaned up next to me and told me he asked her ...

How do I ask out girls?

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5 September 2009 (M) - I have never been the best with talking to girls as I guess im just kind of shy in some aspects. Anyways, I would love to get some advice I could use in this upcoming school year!! Thanks so very much!...

What is he up too?

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5 September 2009 (F) - Hello guys, there was this guy, he would watch me and stuff, I noticed it a while ago, a couple of years ago. We became friends..Anyways, he used to watch every little thing I did, even when I was putting on my lip gloss. He would watch the way...

I told her the truth, don't I deserve the same?

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5 September 2009 (M) - Well, I meet a lady about a year and a 1/2 ago. We fall in love . Thinks were kind of shaky and to make a long story short, We stoped seeing each other for about 5 months. We had no contact for that time, and one day she calls and asks what I've ...

What do I do now that I found out he has never had a girlfriend?

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5 September 2009 (F) - I found out yesterday that the 22 year old guy I've been seeing for around 3 months has never had a girlfriend or a casual relationship before. This has completely flipped the way I'd been thinking about him because I thought he didn't seem that ...

What are we?

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5 September 2009 (F) - Ok so my boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me a week ago. But before I start telling you why and all you must know our past. We met in highschool(our bestfriends were going out). I'm 1 year older then him. So we started hanging out and we became ...

Feels more like a bestfriend now

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5 September 2009 (M) - Hi, I have been dating my gf for close to 2 yrs. We used to have great sex in the beginning but because of certain issues we stopped for a while. Which was fine. However it has been 11 months since we last had sex and now I feel more like shes m...

Looking to much into nothing?

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5 September 2009 (F) - Ok so i have texted just a few times this guy that i like and i noticed something verry small but i wondered if it really mean anything or just me over analyzing it. Anyway he does no that i like him because i have told him. When he knew that it was ...

Dosent my boyfriend trust me?

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5 September 2009 (F) - Hey! I have a problem with my boyfriend. When I ask him what's wrong with him when he's mad, he starts to tell me but then he says never mind. This whole week he's been upset and he doesn't tell me a thing and I'm starting to get so upset that it ...

My friend has problems getting a girl

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5 September 2009 (F) - okay hi, my friend has a huge problem. he's a male, 16, and can't really seem to get a girlfriend. hes a really sweet guy and perverted but in a joking way. and every time he likes a girl, they always seem to stomp on his heart. i suppose sometimes ...

Am I a lost cause or just lost

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5 September 2009 (M) - I'm sorry to write in again but I don't know where to go any more. I'm a lost cause. A waste of space. I can't get a girlfriend. Never had a a proper one. Never been able to. The problem is with me. And I don't know what it is. I do know that I'm ...