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writes:I have been seeing a married man for the past 14 months we have great sex but we get on well together and have similar interests, i am separated from my husband. The man I am seeing has never told me he loves me nor have I told him that I love him. He appears keen he calls me 2-3 times daily and texts about the same. We both make each other laugh communicate well with each other and generally get on well. Do the agony aunts feel there is love here?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2009): your married lover is getting ready to upgrade. just a matter of time.
love? what love.....only the stench of lies and betrayal.
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reader, Omegahero09  +, writes (17 September 2009):
 Also keep in mind, he is definitely cheating on his wife. Say, he did divorce his wife, and marry you... then cheats on you. The issue is here, as soon as you turn the wrong way, people expect you to at every opportunity.
I suggest sitting back, and look at everything that's going on, and evaluate for yourself if what you are doing, what he is doing, your husband is doing, and what his wife are doing. Are these things right? What is right? And go from there.
Good luck!
-Hero
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reader, GrimmReality +, writes (17 September 2009):
 There is no love there. You made a conscious decision by continuing this farce with a married man. And now you are y about to deservedly learn what so many mistresses find out far too late.He will not leave her for youYou are sex. That is itYou see, the allure of having a mistress is just in that you are the mistress. If he were to leave his wife for you, then you are no longer the little secret, or the fling. You are then the woman in the relationship. And he will do the same thing to you he did to his wife WITH YOU. He will eventually tire of you and seek an upgrade. Harsh, yes, but it's the truthSo do yourself a favor, get a clue, grow up and think about how you are helping some poor woman have her marriage destroyed. What the hell are you thinking?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2009): no i dont. I think he has exactly what he wants. And im guessing he thinks you do to. And it aint love sweetie.
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reader, Libra1963  +, writes (16 September 2009):
 If he really loved you. he would leave his wife. It must hurt you with the thought that he returns to her each night.
We are mot psyicics so can not read into his mind. If yu want to waste your life away with a man you may never leave his wife, its up to you.
Think of karma - what goes around comes around. I would suggest you find an available man and leave this man to sort out his marriage. You can also continue to be friends but outside the bedroom.
Good luck!
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reader, busy04 +, writes (16 September 2009):
 I can't speak for anyone else & I'm not here to judge you, but NO, I don't feel the love here.
Honestly to me, stepping out of your marriage being separated or not & helping someone else to ruin theirs is not love. If it was really any love there then you guys would be married to each other & would not have to cheat to find out if that love was is there or not.
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