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Archived questions from: 23 September, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I think I need an intervention to leave him. What do you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

23 September 2009 (?) - My boyfriend moved into my house almost four years ago. He has a verified history of keeping outside "relationships" with other women. Last June I caught him in a heated romance with a co-worker, Stacy which he denied, but then suddenly to...

How do I stop worrying about him breaking my heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - Okay, so I'm completely head over heels inlove with this guy, we have only been dating for 4 months(I know its not that long of a time) but I can't help how I feel about him. Not to long ago he broke up with me :/ it devastaded me! But then he ...

Am I doing something wrong or does he only like me as a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - I get sad If I don't see my guy friend. Me and him have been friends since last year and I thought he liked me! The problem is when its just him and me on the bus we talk a lot and I like that but if his cousin grace, my best friend, sits next to me ...

Is it ok to have a passionate kiss on a first date?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - Is it ok to kiss a guy on the mouth the first date or will he think I'm a whore ? Thanks for any input you can give I have an upcoming date with this guy I have only met once and he is really cute. So naturally I want to kiss him lol ! ...

Should I give him oral even if I'm scared?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - My boyfriend likes me to do oral but I'm scared to. All his ex girlfriends gave him oral. He expects me to give him oral to. I tried it once but stopped. We really love each other and I am scared that if I do not do it he will leave me or cheat on ...

I stuck between my b/f and this new guy at college ...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - right, so i started college at the beginning of september and ive met loads of nice new people. Including this one boy, he is in my class and he makes me laugh so much, and in the last two weeks of knowing him ive become completely attracted to him. ...

What exactly do I do when I play with his penis?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for not more than a year. I love him dearly and I want to satisfy his every need. He says I do but he always get horny on his own. He does most of the foreplay and I feel bad because I want to play with his penis but ...

No no to doggie style!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - I'm a teenager and have been seeing my boyfriend for about 8 months. We recently started having sex (he isn't my first). And every time we do it, he seems to be wanting doggy style. I find it excruciatingly painful and we've talked about it several ...

He doesn't want to go out without me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - I've been happily engaged to my fiancee for 3 years now. Both of us previously being married, neither one of us are in a rush. We have too much on our plate, children, education, career, aging parents right now to deal with. Although, he is ...

He broke up with me, now he wants a second chance.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - I have a major dilemma. I was dating a guy for two years. After a year of dating, I moved to his city and we got a place together, where we lived for a year. We had discussed marriage, kids, etc. Well back in December his mother suffered a stroke ...

I'm worried I'll never find someone who wants to be with me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid I split up with the love of my life 2 and half years ago. I'm now 22, nearly 23 and that was probably the hardedt thing in my life. We were only together a year and a half but he was my first love and I thought we would be together for ...

He still wants to be best friends, but won't explain why he broke up with me. I still love him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - Hello, I'm just looking for a bit of advice really. My boyfriend of a year broke up with me recently giving me no reasons why. He said that I was still the most amazing girl he has ever met and there is no one else he is interested in, a...

I don't understand what she meant!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

23 September 2009 (M) - i have been friends with a girl for quite some time and hoping to get serious. I asked her as a joke how come you don't have a boyfriend and she replies i don't know you well enough to answer that. how am i supposed to understand this?...

Should I give him another chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - I recently ran into a guy that a year ago I had a relationship with for about 6 months and I thought we could become more. We spent 4 days out of 7 together usually on a weekly basis and he called me everyday. He was married for 6 years and just ...

Do I really love him or is it just love you feel for a family member?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - Hi. Ok my problem sounds small but its pretty big. id like all the help i can get. So i was talking with my Boyfriend the other month because my father made me so paranoied by saying we are related, so my boyfriend went and spoke to his mothe...

She said she wants 3 days to decide about the future of our relationship.....what does this look like from an outsider's perspective?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

23 September 2009 (M) - hello i have been with my girlfriend for 4 years now and recently we seem to have drifted apart a bit i spoke to her about this last night because it has been an on going thing now for a while. Just to give you a bit of back ground we've been on ...

Emotional abuse?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4910 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - hi, i desperately need some advice, i have been with my partner for over 3 years now and then i found out that before i met him he used to download illegal porn and sell for money, as he said he needed the money. I found out that he lied on a few ...

How do I break up with him without totally crushing his heart?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - So I've been with my boyfriend now for just over 2 years and it's been a good relationship. He's 25 and I'm 22 and we live together. The problem is that I love him but I'm no longer in love with him. I've been thinking for the last 5 or six months ...

The girl I'm seeing has a very high sex drive! Please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

23 September 2009 (M) - The girl I'm currently seeing has a very high sex drive. Yesterday, we had sex four times, and if she had gotten her way, we would have had it even more than that! Obviously I can't complain too much, as there have been times in my life where I have ...

Am I reading this all wrong or does he like me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - Ok, What would you think if a guy you liked told you this... 1. That he really, really liked me a lot. 2. That not many people 'get' him, but I do. 3. That he feels he can talk to me about anything. 4. Flirts, and accidentally drops in sexual...

I cheated on my girlfriend, it was a huge mistake. I don't know whether to tell

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4006 days ago

23 September 2009 (M) - I've been going out with my girlfriend for just over a year now. 2 months ago she left to go overseas on exchange but I'm going to see her in 2 months and stay with her for 3months. I love her enormously and we've had an amazing relationship. 2 week...

Why do I keep pushing him away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5337 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - Help! I have been with my bf for almost 2 years and I keep pushing him away. We have a very loving relationship and life would be perfect if I didn't keep getting paeranoid that he was going to dump me! I struggle not to ask if we're ok all the...

What are the legal limits? Our ages are 20 and 15. Can we kiss? Anything further?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

23 September 2009 (M) - I'm a 20 year old guy, interested in a 15 year old girl. We've been talking online a lot for the last few months, and seen each other a few times. As a normal person, her mum likes me, but when it comes to seeing her daughter, she's against it. ...

Should I leave the relationship or stay unhappy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - I am forty years old and have been in a relationship with my partner for five years. We have a three year old daughter together. For the last two years we have only had sex twice, and now our daughter remains sleeping in our bed, while I choose to ...

Am I just over sexed or is sex just over rated?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - im 21, multiracial, mostly black female and my fiance is 31yrs white male we been together going on 3 and a half years and im frusrated because i just want him to have sex with me am i just a hornball because im young or is he just not into my sex i...

We fight all the time and there's abusive language...help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - i have been in a relationship for the past four yeras and the guy does mean a lot to me.Though he loves me a lot,there's no proper understanding between us and every other day there's a fight and he can get really angry and use an abusive ...

I crave being wanted but then feel I don't deserve it! How do I fix this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - This isn't exactly a relationship question, although I'm quite sure my relationship (or lack thereof) with my father affects my relationships with men. I've hardly had any contact with my dad for my whole life. He hasn't wanted much to do with ...

Can I get him to like me back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5337 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - So last year I really liked this guy and he liked me and we had a "thing" but it didnt work out and he ended up dating this other girl. Now me and him are both seniors in high school and his girlfriend graduated last year and they are technically ...

Can someone help dissuade me from thinking about him anymore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - So, last semester I dated a guy for about 3 months, with a small break in the middle where he dumped me then decided to get back together just 2-3 weeks later. I liked him a lot and I know he liked me as well but our summer breaks from university ...

I enjoy masturbation more than sex...is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - ive just started having regular sex with my boyfriend of 2 years (ive not been old enough for long) and i seem to find i masterbation more than sex....is this normal and will it change...

What are the dating expectations in Australia?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5338 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - I asked about this yesterday and got the interesting answer that it varies significantly between countries... so now I'm wondering what the typical dating expectations are in Australia? I'm particularly wondering about this situation: you've been ...

I love him but ever since our encounter he's been with other girls sexually!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5338 days ago

23 September 2009 (M) - I'm 19yrs old my best friend and I have known each other for about 2years. I enjoy being around him, we have hold hands and told each other I Love You before. A while back we were both under the influence and he spend the night at my house. I slept ...

Agony Aunts: What do you think is going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

23 September 2009 (M) - Thanks for your help in advance. There's a girl I like, whom I think likes me. This is why I have a question. It all starts six months ago. First, I was havings others give her notes. She kept the first, but threw away the rest, as she got sick ...

Is my girlfriend smoking again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

23 September 2009 (M) - hey once again my girl friend quit smoking about 6 months back when we started dating because i convinced her to and i explaind that its a dirty habit and anything any one could think bad about smoking i told her but now its been half a year and im ...

Why did she lie to me about him if she can tell me about everybody else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5338 days ago

23 September 2009 (M) - I have been together with my girlfriend for about an year now, the problem I have been facing through out our relationship is her past, we started off and after 2 months she told me about some guys that were our common friends that she had one night ...

What should I do about him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - hi i am a 20 year old female and have been seeing my boyfriend for four years. we broke up about 11 months ago and things got a little crazy between us with fighting and that but about two months ago we ended up what i thought was patching things ...

I'm worried about dating again...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - Recently divorced, I have started dating again. I have only ever been with my ex husband. After having children, my body has changed a lot and I am worried about dating this new man who has never dated a woman with children. Any advice?...

He said "if we do break up it's eventual," what on earth does that mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5338 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - My boyfriend seems to really like me, texts or calls me whenever i don't see him, hadn't seen him for a week, he came over and wouldn't let me go, asked what id been up to that kind of thing then made me promise that if i get fed up or want to leave ...