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Archived questions from: 14 September, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

My LONG story and current situation!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

14 September 2009 (M) - Right this is a VERY long one.. Back in October last year i was seeing another girl casually, i had been single for a long time and well we began talking and a few things lead to another we never slept together though i told her i didn't want sex,...

What do I make of his reply?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

14 September 2009 (F) - Hello all, Just a little advice please. I work for a very large organisation, we all work around a 24/7 shift pattern. I noticed a guy at work 1 year ago, thought he was not bad looking. I then met someone on my team, started seeing him, split ...

My girlfriends still in "friend mode"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5346 days ago

14 September 2009 (M) - I'm in a relationship and some help. Here's how it started i asked her if she liked me more than a friend and she said no, Well she already knew i liked her. Well the next day came and she told me she loved me. A day after saying she didn't like me. ...

Is she just stressed or cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

14 September 2009 (M) - Here's the thing.I am 18,my girlfriend is 16 going on 17.We usually have a great sex life and do it whenever we can.However,lately,since she has started college,our sex life (and me for that matter) seem to be the last thing on her mind.It used to ...

I broke up with him and I want him back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5347 days ago

14 September 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfiend have broken up after going out for a couple of months. We weren't in love but I could of fallen for him. The start of the relationship was brilliant i felt safe and that it would work and I would be very happy. He was caring and ...

My boyfriend is not as affectionate with me as he was with his ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5347 days ago

14 September 2009 (F) - dear cupid my boyfriend of three years is hardly ever afecionate with me. he told me he doesn't like public displays of affection and that he has never been very romantic etc...however i found out about four months ago that he used to be roman...

Why did he have sex with me, when he knows he's dumping me?

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14 September 2009 (F) - my boyfriend.. he'd been soo distant for quite a while now so i confronted him and he started yelling at me callin me a nag.. but we made up after the argument..cos he said sorry he was just angry and begged me to forgive him..we made love.. i...

I'm to weak to brake up with her what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

14 September 2009 (M) - Hi. I have a humungus problem i need help with. I´ve been together with a girl for the last two years. However, we became together when I was in the height of my puberty, so I aimed for the first and the best. (If you dont understand, I mean that ...

Secretly going out with a waiter, my friend likes him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

14 September 2009 (F) - hey, i have been going out whith a waiter who works in a Restaurant we go to quiet alot but no one no's about it i went there at the weekend with my family and my best friend and her family and he was working but didnt serve us my best friend n...

Do I have normal expectations or am I being ethnocentric?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5347 days ago

14 September 2009 (F) - My bf and I have been together for quite some time, are in a long-term LDR and reside on different continents. We have all of the normal couple issues but thus far they are something we seem to have been able to work through. Many of his closest ...

Why is it the woman who has to initiate the communication?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

14 September 2009 (F) - Hi Why is it in relationships....99% of the times, it is the woman who has to inititate the communication. It is said that men are different from women..they are not as emotional and don't spend half the amount of time as we wommen do, dwellin...

Is there a more subtle way to get the conversation going than just walking right up to him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

14 September 2009 (F) - How do I talk to this guy i don't know in the year above? we don't share any classes but we walk home the same way from school. I'm a bit shy so I don't want to just walk up to him and say hi, so is there a more subtle way to get conversation ...

My boyfriend and friend don't get along... Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5347 days ago

14 September 2009 (F) - hi, I'm kind of stuck between my friend and my bf. I've planned to go out with my friend in 2 weeks time, my problem is that I've recently got back together with my ex and they dont get on with each other, i don't know why. It's very hard as i r...

He deleted my email without reading it, but I really want to see him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5347 days ago

14 September 2009 (F) - I've got a very close friendship with an old colleague and we often email each other and occasionally speak on the phone and we are quite flirty (and I think he's lovely). We live miles away from each other, so always try to catch up if either of ...

How can I prepare mentally for first time sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

14 September 2009 (M) - Im 14, almost 15 and my gf is 13, almost 14 (her bday is 3 days before mine) I havn't been on this site for a while because i havnt had much going on that i couldnt talk to my friends about. But i have recently gotten back togather with me ...

My passionate feelings are disappearing for her

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

14 September 2009 (M) - How would you act? I have a wonderful woman, lovely, sexy, intelligent. She knows how to please me, she has a lot of love in her, she is honest. We are a few years together and have still an intensive sexlife, what we both need. We have a go...

He only wants to meet with me privately

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

14 September 2009 (?) - I have been dating this guy for about three months. Hes wonderful and I really love him.The problem am having is he almost never wants to meet me during the day time. We only meet in the evening, mostly in private places or chat in the car. I have ...

She was hot but now cold and I don't know what happened

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5348 days ago

14 September 2009 (M) - I've been seeing this girl Louise 23 for 4 dates. She's a barmaid at our local pub and after chatting to her one night after a lock in we got on really well. I saw her the week after and asked if she wanted to go out sometime and she said yes...

Her past with men I know is ruining us!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

14 September 2009 (M) - I work in a small company, with a ration of only eight other men including myself. I met my girlfriend at a work related function, as she herself use to work there until only a few months before I started. I sensed a curious vibe from my male col...

I put so much effort into her because I love her! Should I push through this pain a bit longer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

14 September 2009 (M) - Dear Cupid, I have been with this girl for about 2 years already. I love her to death. I have changed my ways for her to make her happy. My everyday is to make sure she smiles and laughs but at the same time im hurting. I am afraid to talk t...

Family have made my relationship hell,. Please help, where do I go from here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

14 September 2009 (F) - well this is how my story began its kinda long so i hope you can bare with me... (i would appreciate it).. so i'm a 17 yr old about to be 18 in three to four months. i met this guy about 8 months ago and we've been talking ever since. surprisingly ...

Argh, What am I doing to this guy? What should I do here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5348 days ago

14 September 2009 (F) - I want some opinions on what to do with this situation. I went out with this guy three times. He paid each time, was a total gentleman, didn't overstep one boundary and so on. I for some reason freaked out and told him I wasn't ready for more t...

Was he that freaked out that he said this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

14 September 2009 (?) - so i just turned 16 and my bf is 18. we have an amazing relationship tho it is still in the bieginning stages. only about 3.5 months into it. we are together everyday and are extremely affectionate. the problem is, he is a senior and will be ...

Guy I dated just txt me a month after not talking to me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

14 September 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, im just really confused about this guy i went out with a few times, just wanted some advice. So this guy ive known since highschool started talking to me on facebook. We talked for a few weeks and he asked me out for dinner. So i wen...

Out of the 3 men, who seems more like relationship material?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

14 September 2009 (F) - Which guy seems more like relationship material? SAM- my ex who i was in a relationship with a year ago. i was in love with him. he is gorgeous, smart and shares my similar sarcastic, smarky humour. doesn't know exactly what he wants at times t...

I'm in love with him but can't do anything about it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

14 September 2009 (F) - Hi I was wondering if I can get some advice on this situation. I am 20 years old and I think I really love this guy who is 26. I have only known him for only six months and I've never been in love before, as all the guys I have been with were jerks. ...

How do I get this girl close enough to ask her out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

14 September 2009 (M) - I work at Morrison's supermarket and there have been a few new staff employed recently. There is this girl who is around the same age as me who I've started to like. I sometimes talk to her on my breaks. She is quite shy and placid. I speak ...

Are we too clingy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5348 days ago

14 September 2009 (F) - It seems like we're perfect together. Both of us have mellow personalities and neither of us have tempers so when something bad happens we end up laughing. We never fight, we never get tired of talking or things to talk about, we disagree but never ...