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Archived questions from: 2 September, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I love her, she's no longer in my school, how do I get the courage to contact her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5341 days ago

2 September 2009 (M) - i like this girl who lives near me, ive always liked her but around 1 year ago she left my school so i havent seen her since then. i swear im in love with her, ive had loads of girlfriends but ive never felt the same about them as i do with her. my ...

I only have 7 days to get her to like me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

2 September 2009 (M) - Ok, a lady friend of mine is coming onto town. She moved away from here about four months ago. I believe I can get her to like me but I only have 7 days to do so. Whats the best thing a man can do or say to get a girl by his side?...

He said "he's available but not reliable"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been dating this guy for almost two months- He has been really great, affectionate (says great things like: "you are my dream girl- everything about you is great!" - siting all characteristics about me he loves- physical and i...

I was told to be more dominant

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5285 days ago

2 September 2009 (M) - I was told that I should try and be more dominant. She said it was something about how we cuddled that gave it away. How do I change? I sorta get the way to act but its the stuff like cuddling and kissing dominantly that confuses me. How does ...

Is it bad for me to always wait for the boy to ask me out!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - Its it bad for me to always wait for the boy to ask me out! I've never had a relationship and my friend has shown some interest but I'm afraid to tell him how I feel. I might tell him when I graduate since I will never see him again! I know that hes ...

He won't notice me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5358 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - I really fancy this guy i think i mite be in love he knows i fancy him we work together so its awkward but i just dont know what to do sometimes he will do something that makes me think he fancies mebut then he will ignore me i feel hurt because he ...

Was I rude to not check, or right to not lead her on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

2 September 2009 (M) - Hi there, I recently attended Reading festival (and had an amazing time!) and i was approached by a girl who couldn't find her friends on the first night and was lost. I lent her my phone to call her friends but she couldn't contact them so ...

I got his attention...Now what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5357 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - I hit it off flirting with a really hot restaurant bartender. Before my friend came over I started up a conversation with him and we talked for about an hour. The other servers kind of laughed that they didn't want to interrupt him when they needed ...

We split up because I was self-harming.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5359 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - i fancyed this boy for just over five years. when i soon plucked up the courage to ask him out before i could finish the question he repled yes. i had never been so happy in my life. a week after we split up because i was self harming again. soon ...

How can I get back with my girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5323 days ago

2 September 2009 (M) - Hi, I went out with this girl for about 2 weeks, she was like my best friend before, But she stil is now. The reason we broke up was because it was really awkward, but that was mainly due to my friends being twats. So it was like awkward in the w...

Will a 20 year old get in trouble for dating a 14 year old girl?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

2 September 2009 (M) - What trouble could a 20yr old male get in for dating a 14yr old girl even if both familys are happy with this and give them there full support?...

I won't go out with him if he has a girlfriend; he doesn't want to risk breaking up with her in case I won't go out with him after.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - I started a new job around 6 months ago, got on well with everyone. There was a guy who started like poking me and pulling my hair, not nastily, but in a fun way. I thought he liked me or something, until I was told he had a girlfriend, who actually ...

Met the man of my dreams at the coffee shop...what do I do??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - The other day I met this guy who is the man of my dreams at a coffee shop. He stood there and stared at me for awhile,letting me look him in the eyes for a while, and than walked away. How do I know if he is coming back? Do I have to do anything...

What shd I do????

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

2 September 2009 (M) - I've been dating this girl for a short amount of time. I used to talk to her everyday if not see her everyday. Things were going great. I don't think that I was smothering her because if I didn't try to see her, she tried to see me. I went on ...

How do I move on from an LDR who I thought was Mr right..?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - How do u move on from a long term relationship after you break up with the one who you felt was mr right. Obviously i get the point that if he was mr right then we would still be together but some things are 1 sided. I might not be mrs right for him ...

Been with my gf for a year but we only have sex once every two weeks!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

2 September 2009 (M) - i've been with my girlfriend for a year now and everything is going great apart from one thing, we hardly ever have sex im a 19 yr old man and feel i should be haveing sex more than once a fortnight, ive tried talking to her plenty of times but she ...

We've been dating for 4 months but I don't feel that she is into me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

2 September 2009 (M) - I'm 21 and my girlfriend is 19. WE have been dating for four months, but I don't feel that she is that into me. She told me shes bad at expressing her feelings, and that had been a problem on past relationships. We only see each other once or twice ...

What should I do ? I think I'm starting to fall in love with him and I don't want to lose him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5359 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - A couple months ago I got a job in the food court at my mall. I met this guy (we'll call him Chris) but never paid much attention to him since we rarely worked together. Then one day, it was just the two of us opening in the front of the store and ...

How do I concentrate on school and not on the girl I like?

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2 September 2009 (M) - I like a girl very much from past 3 years. I am currently in class 12th. She also studies with me. We talk to each other. We r just frnds. I think she knows i like her. But still, she has a boyfriend. I am losing concentration in my stud...

I'm dating an overly flirtatous man, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - I am in a relationship with a man who constantly is flirting with other women. He has several female friends although I don't think they like him in the physical sense. He thinks that if he keeps it all on the table then there is nothing wrong...

Help! My boyfriend just can't sleep with me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - I am 21 and my boyfriend is 22. I was best friends with my boyfriend for four years before we started going out, we are madly in love and very happy. There is a lot of passion in our relationship with us both pleasuring each other daily but whenever ...

Travelling in Australia and met someone, what do I do about my boyfriend back home?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - Hi everybody, Im currently travelling around the world. So before I came away I was on a website for travellers and met lots of friends who ive met up with along the way and turned into great friends. There was a guy I was chatting to alot...

Boyfriend is going back to uni and I don't think he will miss me at all

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5359 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - So basically, I'm having doubts about my boyfriend's feelings towards me. He has never been very expressive with his emotions but recently he has become even less so. He rarely tells me he loves me without me having to say it first, he rarely ...

Two friends fighting over a boy and I'm stuck in the middle! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5359 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - Hello :D Okay so my friend has a boyfriend and they are perfect together, however my other friend has started to like him. Both friends are in a huge feud and I seem to be caught in the middle of it. Both of them usually come to me for a shoulder...

I love him, but its not the right time

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - So I've been talking to this guy for about seven months and I completely love him and he loves me, but I can't handle it anymore. I love him so much and I don't want to hurt him, but how do I tell him right now just us the right time. ...

I'm having an arranged marriage, and my fiance would rather spend time with his friends than me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - Hi,I have got engaged around 5 months ago. I am basically a very shy and introvert kind of girl, but my would be is extrovert and very social. He has a large network of friends and contacts. Everytime he remains busy with his friends and all. ...

He never listens to me!

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2 September 2009 (F) - Ive been dating my boyfriend for a about 8 months now and we are completely serious and in love with each other. When it comes to arguing, we are both stubborn but here and there we would let down our pride and apologize. Most of the time, my ...

I said no when he proposed because our star signs don't match

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - Im so confused what to do.... Im 23 yrs old.. I am in relationship with a guy(he's 5 years elder than me) for more than 10 years now.. we've been through many ups and downs... his parents knew about us and they had approached my parents without ...

Boyfriend is selfish in bed, should I break up with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - I care about my boyfriend, but in bed there is no satisfaction. He won't do things for me and I'm beginning to think that he is very selfish. Although he asks me what I want him to do, I don't feel like he will listen so I don't bother. I'm s...

How do I get my girlfriend to trust me? And how do I know if she loves me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5359 days ago

2 September 2009 (M) - hello people.well im 15 years old.n heres my question how can u get ur gf 2 trust u...well i mess up on her n the firest 2 months i kiss another girl..it took me i say 2 months 2 tell her.but it was the time i statred realizing how much im n love ...

I have classes with my crush, how do I make sure things are not awkward between us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5359 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - so there's this guy I like and we were talking for like the longest time then when school started he stopped talking to me. we both liked each other too. well we have two classes together and things are awkward how do I get things to not be awkward ...

Why would I rather have a bad guy and try to change him, then have a good guy that doesn't have to be changed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - How come after every relationship ends, I say I want a good guy. I want a guy that will finally treat me good, with the respect I know I deserve but how come when a guy like that comes around, then I don't want to take the chance? Why w...

How do I tell her that I need her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5359 days ago

2 September 2009 (M) - How do I tell my girlfriend that I need her. I've told her lots of personal stuff, but I've never told her that I need her and I know I do so how do I tell her. I want to just so everything is in the open....

I've been dating two guys, I feel as though I will have to pick one to get serious with

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5206 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - You know those moments when a problem you've been thinking about suddenly becomes clear to you? Well I've just had one of those. There are these 2 guys I've been seeing and they are both coincidentally overseas at the moment and due back at the same ...

Why did she set me up with him if she liked him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - Soo basically my best friend since 5th grade set me up with this guy a few months ago right after a long serious relationship I had. We both had a thing for e/o lasted a bit didnt actually go out. But after a couple days we decided to be friends ...

I want to get her something that will show her I love her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

2 September 2009 (M) - I want to get my girlfriend something that says I love you and I'll do anything to prove it. There is no special ocasion I just want to get her something. She's 14 so nothing sexual. I buy her flowers every now and then so I can't get her that. My ...

Does it mean anything that he's suddenly calling me baby?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - I’ve got a few related questions here - if a guy goes backpacking on his own for 4 months and doesn’t have sex in that time, is that likely to be because of chosen loyalty to a potential girlfriend but current friend-with-benefits or more likely j...

He stares but never says anything

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5360 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - MOD NOTE: This is NOT posted like its coming from a female 36-40. there is this guy i like but i am not sure if he likes me, he stares at me all the time but there is no expression on his face, sometimes if i catch him staring he will look away oth...