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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2009): you should probably stop dating until you're older and can figure out exactly what you want. you should also stop listening to miley cyrus.
i know that you think you know everything when you're young. we all do. but i promise you that in 5 years, you won't even recognize yourself, and that's a good thing. trust me.
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reader, Tarianna  +, writes (18 September 2009):
 I'm Jamaican and when we say "carrying feelings"..we mean hating people...or malice if you rather...its a heavy load...and you are welcome
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionVV"you are both too young to be "carrying" feelings for eachother"
and thank u Tariana. im awareeee :)
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reader, Tarianna +, writes (17 September 2009):
by law it doesnt matter whether you give consent or not....its carnal abuse as you are not at the age...at that time to give consent...and also whether or not it sounds ridiculous its the law and it is rape....and I did not say you were too youung I said immature there is a differece....as a person can be 25 years old or whatever and still be too immature to be in a relationship and vice versa...my intention is not to belittle you but to give advice..your choice is to accept or not
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni am well aware that they are 18 (whichever u were refering to) but everyone is very accepting of our relationship. he is only 2 & 1/2 yrs older than me. pretty ridiculous to call it rape because in no way would i ever tell him no. neither me nor him are worried about that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2009): If your boyfriend is 18 and your relationship became sexually intimate, he could be accused of statutory rape.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHate it when people say we're too young. my bf is 18. my ex is 18. ill be 16 soon. besides, age really doesnt matter. u can still care for someone without being old. trust me its possible.
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reader, Tarianna +, writes (16 September 2009):
well I ought to be objective so here is the thing...both of you are too immature for a serious relationship...and by the way why were you both having this arguement in the first place didnt you say you were in a relationship...another thing....in 7things...she actually loved the things that she hated about him in a sort of messed up way...and he hates you but loves you still so I would think that you guys have feelings still for each other which needs resolving..resolving doesnt necessarily mean getting back together it just means getting the issues that you had before so you guys can live civil...you both are too young to be "carrying" feelings for each other.....just apologies to each other and take it one step of a time from there without getting into another childish argument...I hope I helped
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reader, cutegirl4771  +, writes (16 September 2009):
i think that it's better for you to end any contact with him and don't tell your bf. you will forget about him soon. True love accepts the person for who they are, even when they are evil and they don't love you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2009): When you are still expending the energy to argue and hurl accusations, you two are not over the relationship. Quit the games, don't talk to him, and move on.
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