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Archived questions from: 28 September, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Why won't he commit?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5333 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - I am currently "involved" with a soldier. He has been a really good friend for years which somehow evolved into an intimate relationship. We never intended for things to get this far, mainly because he is my ex-boyfriends best friend. (Well, not ...

I am attracted to a work mate, but he is dating someone else. What to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - Ive been in my current job for about 12-18months, I work with a girl who is 3 years younger than me and her boyfriend always comes in when we work 2gether... we've recently been flirting alot and im starting to get feelings for him and im getting ...

He never says he misses me or that he loves me. Why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - Cupid, I really need your help! I feel so silly writing on here, but I figure it's the easiest way. If I ask my friends what they think, I know how they'll respond and it's safer to get an unbiast opinion... Anyways..I've been going out with t...

Should I presue this or does he just not like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - I posted once before about an attraction I have developed to my college T.A. To recap, I am 23 and he is 28. I am a senior and he is a Ph.D candidate. He is very shy, a little awkward, but has a very intelligent and interesting mind. Because o...

Please I need advice on finding love

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, thanks for reading at least. I'm 23 and have never had any kind of close relationship with anyone. It never works when I feel attracted to someone, maybe because I show myself really enthusiastic about what may be going on and become ...

Does she just look at me as a friend and not fancy me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

28 September 2009 (M) - I'm a married professional man and have befriended a younger woman at work. She has just got over some mild depression, which I may have helped a little with supportive chats and some confidence building (positive comments and so on). We talk quite ...

Lost confused and hurt

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - a guy that claims to like me .. i think sometimes that i do like him but im not sure if its because he used to show me alot of attention now he doesnt show as much. everytime we are around each other he's always flirting with me and asking me to ...

Choosing between ex or boyfriend who is in jail and gets out soon?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5333 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - I am 15 and am currently dating a guy whom just turned 25. There are a few problems though. My boyfriend is in jail at the moment and gets out in three months. My ex boyfriend who I have been on and off with for the past 4 years is trying to get ...

Should I end it or is this normal communication?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

28 September 2009 (M) - I posted recently, and got one helpful response. However, I was really hoping for more than just one response. I have been hanging out with my ex for over a month now after a 5 year hiatus. Before this, she was in a 2 year relationship wit...

Am I too fat to attract a boyfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - Am I Fat To Have a borfreind? 15 years...60 kg....152 cm .....

Do I not have a boyfriend because of my looks?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - iam 15 iam young i know...my problem is in my look..i just cant cope with it,maybe because i cant have a boyfreind ..most of my freinds have boyfreinds 2 or more..but me i have zero..i thought maybe because of my look am fat,ugly have nothin nice in ...

New girl wants my relationship status on facebook to change but I don't want to hurt my ex!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

28 September 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm unsure what to do. I've started seeing a girl, and straight away she wants me to change my relationship status on Facebook to "In A Relationship". Now, before you believe that THAT is my problem then please let me continue! Over t...

Is she too aggressive? Or should I just take her out anyways?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

28 September 2009 (M) - I went on one date with a girl and it went pretty well. Afterwards she texted me and asked if I wanted another date. I said sure, she said where? I couldn't think of any good ideas so I put off texting her. Then I got distracted and then I forgot. ...

Almost 17 and never had a boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5333 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - I'm 16, soon to be 17 in a months time and i've never had a boyfriend. For some weird reason, recently I just really want one.. I'm not the type of person to just date anyone for the sake of it, which is why i've never had one in the first place. I ...

G/f says that I'm not your call girl..I get no affection from her at all

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

28 September 2009 (M) - I am 21. I and my girlfriend have been together for 2 years now. I always try to make her happy by cracking jokes, make her laugh. In our 1st 6 months, she completely ignored me as if we were just friends and took more interest in other guys. But ...

Once I've passed my driving test should I tell my instructor I have a crush on him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - i'm 42 and since january I've been taking driving lessons. my instructor is a lovely man. a brilliant instructor and a wonderful person, kind, gentle, considerate etc etc. we get on very well together and my lessons feel more like time spent with ...

Boyfriend's a jerk, cheated on me 4 X already

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - this might be hard to explain but i need people's opinions and advice. i had been seeing this guy for 5 month and in that time he cheated on me 4 times and had "pictures" of another girl on his phone. but recently we decided to put the past behind ...

Should I go for the new or hold out for the old?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - Hi, I am pregnant and 28. My new ex is 49. I have a met a new man who is 34. Anyway I don't know what to do about this. I have not been with the new man yet and am taking it extra slow. I want my ex back but he has ignored me for 5 wks now. So there ...

She made a new facebook account, lied about it and now I feel very insecure

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5333 days ago

28 September 2009 (M) - ive been dating this amazing girl for about 1 yr and 5months. shes amazing and i love her to death. she is my other half. we have been through absolute hell together, from the rumors and drama to the pointless arguements. were together forever. ...

Is he bored now that the chase is over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - Hi everyone sorry if this is long and confusing! Ive been seeing a guy for the last two months, in the beginning he was very keen and had been chasing me for quite a while, texting me all the time wanting to hang out and chatting on msn oft...

My girlfriend is going out clubbing without me, how do I feel comfortable about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

28 September 2009 (M) - Friday night My girlfriend is going out this Friday night and I am beginning to feel anxious. I just need someone to talk to about it to as I get a bit paranoid. Basically she will be going out after work at about half 9 with her friends in...

Is it ok to schedule for casual sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5334 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - I am a uni student. I went out once with this stranger whom I had a crush on for a long time. The first date was good. Unfortunately, things took an ugly turn and we both know that there will not be another date. We have no mutual friends. Despite ...

I'm worried that he doesn't feel the same way about me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - I have been dating a very nice man for 2 months. I have worried that he doesn't seem to have feelings for me--at least not on the level that I'm feeling. I talked to him about this on Saturday. He said he has been told by others that he is ...

There's going to be heartbreak tonight!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

28 September 2009 (M) - Hey, I am a 15 year old boy, and I have to chose between two girls in a few hours, both of whom I have feelings for, and neither of whom have an indication of what internal turmoil I am currently going through... The first girl, I had met...

Should I leave him and start my life over again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - Please help. I am so confused. I don't know what to do now. I date with this guy for 2 years now. He is 8 years older then me and he said I am his first girlfriend. He said he use to date before but nobody take him serious. He is kind of plain (ugly ...

Was he flirting with me or did I just misunderstand?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - Due to a medical emergency back in 98 my mom had to have a surgery. I was instantly attracted to the doctor. It's been 11 years, and I sought him out to perform a routine surgery I need. I met with him last week, I was overwelmed with how I still ...

Who do I choose: boyfriend of 1 month who makes sense, or risk a new exciting connection?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5333 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - Hi, so here's my problem. I've been dating this guy for a month now who i'd had a crush on for 5 months before we started dating. It's been really great but now i've moved back to college which is about two hours away. I know its not that far of a ...

My boyfriend's family drama

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5333 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - Hi. I'm getting pretty serious with my long-term boyfriend and I'm really happy about that. I just have one issue. His family has a lot of drama. I'm not wanting to be judgemental about it because it's not his fault, but I'm just concerned as to how ...

Goint right into a relationship after ending a 3 year relationship with first love

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - I don't know if i am over the man of my past relationship that just ended so abruptly, he is very bitter about it but we had so much because it was first love. Do you agree you will always be attached to your first love? When ever i am ...

5 year age difference between us is bothering me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - I am starting to have really strong feelings for this guy that works in the restaurant at the bottom of my building. My issue is that I just turned 25 and he just turned 20! I am a Children's Librarian and work with kids ranging infant to 18 years ...

How can I make him see that I'd be an awesome girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - This guy and I used to date a while ago but we were never official. He was my first and basically, I wanted a commited relationship and he wanted to be free and party. But when he blew me off for a party one time, I finally had enough and stopped ...

His more affluent family treats me like trash!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - So here is my situation: my bf and I have been dating for a year and a half. We both just finished law school, and have jobs lined up. My job is with a small firm, and it pays substantially less than my bf's. He got a big law firm job. I we...

Does he want me eventually, just not right now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - i don't even know where to begin. i started seeing this guy over a year and a half ago. at the time when we met i was actually pregnant with another guys baby but the father didnt want to be involved at all. i decided that i wanted to keep the baby ...

Not much contact in 2 weeks does he not feel as strongly as I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - So I have been talking to this guy for two months. We met through work. We were both to shy to ask each other out, so my co worker hooked us up. We immediately hit it off. We spent so much time together...movies, museums, pool hall...we just had so ...

Maybe interested afer all?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5333 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - I told this boy named Taz that I really liked him over the Summer, about two months ago. I told him all through text of how I like him. It was my first time ever asking a boy out and telling my feelings. I am 17 years old and I am a girl. Taz ...

All of a sudden my b/f is easily upset -- why is he acting like this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5333 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have a really good relationship. We're a perfect match, or says his friends and mine. Lately he hasn't been being himself. He seems mad and upset. And, he seems to get mad at me really easily (Example; For bringing up a ...

I dwell on my insecurities, and wonder if I should be sharing all that with her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5333 days ago

28 September 2009 (M) - I am a very sinsecure person, being mid twenties and only in my first realtionship. My relationship is very non-sexual even though we are nearly a year into it, not necessarily through my choice but hers as she is working on some physical and ...

Why do guys tell you that they love you on the first date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - Why do loads of guys ask you to marry them or tell you that they love you on the first date? is it because a.)their completely insane b.)they think your stupid enough to believe them 3.)they don't usually-I just date the weirdos...