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Archived questions from: 18 September, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

How do you get over the fear of opening up to someone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

18 September 2009 (F) - So I have the generic problem of not opening up to anyone because I'm afraid of being vunerable and/or rejected. This has ruined my friendships in the past, and made relationships with boyfriends really difficult. I am 19 and now in my first seri...

Falling for my long ago ex-history teacher...is this wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

18 September 2009 (F) - Sorry if this is long...Four years ago, I graduated from a small blended middle/high school in Tennessee. I moved to New York for college, and while I was there, I lost a lot of weight. I look a lot more attractive now than I used to. A couple of ...

I have no idea what his relationship status is and now just go with the flow!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

18 September 2009 (F) - Hi, I met this guy about a year ago at the gym (he works there, I'm a member). After a month, I started crushing on him. It always seemed he liked me too, but he wouldn't make a move (I thought he was a slow mover). Also, he's younger than I a...

I am concerned about my boyfriend. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

18 September 2009 (F) - I am a christian and have been talking with someone for 2 years. He wants to have a good time for instance driving out to the country and stay for a night at a resort. I really dont want to do that. Should i give up on him and try to find someone ...

Is this relationship between cousins wrong and how do I tell my parents?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

18 September 2009 (F) - Ok I know this may sound weird but I'm in a relationship with my second cousin twice removed. We only met recently and had no interaction as children and our families aren't very close. I really like him and he likes me. He's told his family about ...

How do I tell her that I'm interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5342 days ago

18 September 2009 (M) - I met this girl online,and we've been talking to each other.then one day she asked me if i had a girl friend,i said no.then i askedg if she had too,she said no.she said she has had in da past like 10 but they where all jerks,she suddenly logged ...

Help! my baby's dad could be a rapist!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

18 September 2009 (F) - dearcupids, i really dont know who to go to now! im hoping someone will have a bit of advice, im 17 and i met this great guy when i was 14 and i instantly fell for him, i didt think he was interesting so i guess it was a secret crush i had on him, ...

Her fancy dress nights from the past are getting me down.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

18 September 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm in a loving relationship with a wonderful girl and have been for almost a year. However I have an issue. I can't get over the fact that when she was single she used to love dressing up on fancy dress nights and Halloween etc. Obviou...

Do all guys go off a girl when they've been together for a while?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

18 September 2009 (F) - Do all guys go off a girl when they've been together for a while, like a year? I know you have to work at relationships but it just seems that my boyfriend has more fun playing games n having a laugh with his online friends that he rarely thinks ...

Can we have sex without him knowing I'm a virgin? Will it hurt?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

18 September 2009 (F) - Hi. My BF who I love dearly is experienced (he`s had three other partners, one of which was a virgin) and I`m a virgin. Well... a virgin as far as never had a MAN penetrate me. I`ve participated in oral sex before and I also masturbate often. I lied ...

I need some advice on how to get to know her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

18 September 2009 (M) - well to start off..i know this girl that i really like before..she was my batchmate from highschool and at the same level until graduating to 2007 but we never really had any communication i mean were not even classmates due to the fact that our ...

He says he's bored with me and that I'm unattractive. Should I still try?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

18 September 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little more than two years now and we have been living together close to two years. Just a couple of weeks ago he had been coming home late at night around 4 in the moring every night. He says he is with ...

Common sense is telling me to move on. What do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

18 September 2009 (F) - I was in a very loving, caring relationship with a guy for almost two years. At the end of July he had to move to Pennsylvania for grad school, and I stayed here in Hawaii to finish my undergrad degree. He will be there for the next year and a half, ...

Follow-up: Do you think she's really into me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5343 days ago

18 September 2009 (M) - Hey! Just after a second opinion please following this... http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-she-didnt-say-im-meeting-my-boyfriend.html http://www.dearcupid.org/quest...

Do confident people get into relationships if they know they won't result in marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

18 September 2009 (M) - Do people with healthy, high self esteem get into exclusive relationships if they know the other person won't ever marry them?...

Am I crazy? Or is he?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

18 September 2009 (F) - Answers from guys will be appreciated. I met a guy who was separated from his wife, but still living in the same house as they got along pretty well and saw no reason to rock the financial boat by running separate households. We saw each other fo...

I really want a baby with the person I'm with now!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

18 September 2009 (F) - So i've been thinking lately, and I really want a baby with the person im with now, and he wants one as well. Well a few days ago I went to the rr and noticed a few specks of blood so I put a pad on and 2 specks came out all day. [I know TMI ...

I'm too young to be in such a mess! Should I walk away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5344 days ago

18 September 2009 (F) - Ok so here is my situation. I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months and we already live together (mistake #1) I have grown to be so unhappy but feel stuck in the relationship because not only do we live together but we also work together. I am 21 ...

He made a horrible mistake. How do I trust him again?

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18 September 2009 (F) - I've asked several times about boyfriends cheating while intoxicated, and also gave the story about how my boyfriend cheated and how he's worked to regain trust. Once again I thank you all from the bottom of my heart for your amazing advice. ...

Knowing when to get out of a dying relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

18 September 2009 (M) - Being in a relationship has been compared to being on drugs, the highs being really high and the lows being the pits, both end with withdrawal symptoms. Unfortunately when the relationship begins to go sour we tend to do what drug users do, we chase ...

Why is love so unfair for some people?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

18 September 2009 (M) - I told this girl how I felt before summer, hoping to spend time with her and to get to know her a little better; I asked if it would be okay to pursue her; but of course... of all things, she doesn't feel the same way. I was surprised and have ...