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Archived questions from: 6 September, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Friendly things to text to a crush?

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6 September 2009 (F) - I was wondering what are some just like friendly things to say to my crush if i wanna text him. He knows that i like him. I have used hey, hows ur day going, and i "accidentally" texted him a question that was obviously not meant for him and he just ...

I wonder what happened?

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6 September 2009 (F) - Ok, I am in love with this man, we have known eachother for nearly 5 years. He has expressed to me that he was interested in me, but that was before our huge fight. Anyways, I saw him last Sunday and he was staring and smiling at me when I walked ...

He's already got a girl..could it work?

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6 September 2009 (F) - I am really in love with a guy who seems to be in love with me. He flirts and hints a lot about wanting to kiss me. He said he'd date me if he didn't(here's the catch,you guessed it:) he has a girlfriend! They have a shaky relationship. It's ok at ...

I'm not gay and don't like gays so why am I thinking like I am?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

6 September 2009 (M) - Hi. I watch porn quite regularly and it's usually straight porn. I have sex with girls quite regularly and i do enjoy their company but for the past couple of years i've been thinking about boys too. I have started to watch gay porn and i love ...

Is this kind of blowjob practiced?

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6 September 2009 (M) - bj a novel method my girl friend does felatio in a fantastic way.she keeps half of it and gives rhythmatic sqeezing with her lips unlike toand fro usually performed.this literally rips me off to come within few minutes.is this kind of bj descr...

Came out of abusive relationship, met nice man, how do I keep the negative thoughts away?

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6 September 2009 (F) - Ok, this is going to sound a bit silly to some people I am sure...but I need some advice... I have recently come out of an abusive 4 year relationship - I had 2 children with my ex. He moved out to be single and wanted me to wait for him to decid...

How can I talk to my girlfriend about taking it to the next step?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

6 September 2009 (M) - Ok, so i have been with my girlfriend for about 10 months now. I really love her, but i dont know how far she would be willing to take it yet. We havent gone much farther than making out, so i dont know what would make her feel uncomfortable. Even ...

My ex husband is hassling me and it's affecting our daughter and my new boyfriend! How can I get him to stop?

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6 September 2009 (F) - My X husband drives our new family crazy. He is complete Drama and I’m afraid it is affecting our 6 year old daughter he and I have together. He is a bully, a really nasty person. Name calling, yelling at the front door then denies it or acts as ...

What can I do to get past my fear of kissing?

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6 September 2009 (F) - i have a problem.i have a lovely boyfriend who loves me and stufff like that.we've been together for a week.the problem is i have never french kissed and i have no experience with this and i'm afraid to do it.i told him this and he said no ...

Does my best friend love me, or am I being used?

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6 September 2009 (F) - does my best friend love me? i met a guy on an internet website last year. We were talking for about 3 months before we met up. he is 24 and i am 32. he is an artist and draws naked women as well as being extremely intelligent (he has two degrees ...

How do I get my ex back?

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6 September 2009 (M) - Hi, My name is dapo and i've been in a relationship for just more than a month. I met this girl at a time when i wasn't even thinking of dating anyone but for some reasons, she stole my heart away and we started dating 1 week after we met. There ...

Taking a shine to a female tutor, should I proceed cautiously?

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6 September 2009 (F) - I have just started at college and i have taken a shine to a female tutor. It is distracting me from my work. She is fantastic, with a great smile and personality. I even stay behind to talk to her. She touches my arm alot and rubs it. when she ...

He didn't leave me his number

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6 September 2009 (F) - So I met this pretty cool guy the other night, and he ended up staying over my dorm. We hooked up (and by that, I mean only made out), and he had to leave for work in the morning. When I woke up, he wrote me a note, saying that he had a great ...

Do all guys want their girlfriends to be "one of the guys"?

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6 September 2009 (F) - Do all guys want their gf's to be 'one of the guys'? By this, I mean do guys want their gfs to behave and act like their male friends? Do they want their gfs to get completely drunk off their face with all their friends? Do they want their gf's to ...

Do other people keep secrets from their parents?

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6 September 2009 (F) - just out of curiousity, do lots of other ppl keep keep many secrets from their parents? i have been in a relationship with a guy for almost a year and a half now and we were very close friends before. i can't tell my parents anything about it ...

Was she really not able to talk or just brushing me off?

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6 September 2009 (M) - I have a phone numer of this girl [She's an exchange student from Italy]. My friend gave me her number and she never see me before. I called her today and she said she's busy and can't talk right now. Does it mean she doesn't want to talk to ...

Worried about my 16 year old sister dating a man 25

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6 September 2009 (M) - Hai, i need your opinion/advice on this. I have a sister,she's 16,and lately,she's been seeing this guy,he's 25.I dont know where she got him but overall,Im pretty worry bout her.He does seem nice towards her,but thats not the point,im afraid ...

I can't tell if he just looks at all girls or me or what?

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6 September 2009 (F) - I got a crush on this guy at work and there is some kind of chemistry between us.. which is pretty much visible i guess since one of my coworker asked me discreetly if we had something going on. We are always joking, teasing each other and ...

Update: Do you think I've blown my chances because I didn't turn up?

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6 September 2009 (F) - Hi guys. If you've read my previous question, you'll know about this guy who I met for coffee and we ended up kissing. I've "known" him for about a year 1/2 and my perception of him is he is shy and a bit of a loner. He's quite nice looking (to ...

Should I take this as a sign that Sam is the one who I should choose?

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6 September 2009 (F) - I went out to a few clubs with friends last night and there was this one random guy hitting on me way more insistently than anyone ever before! So he'd tried to kiss me maybe 8 times when I started wondering why I really didn't want him to kiss me - ...

He may never come back now except for visits and I miss him so much!

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6 September 2009 (F) - I need to know how to rise above my situation. I was in a long distant relationship with my boyfriend for 8 months, we've now been together for 10. I've only got to see him three months out of the whole ten months we've been together. I waited ...

I can't tell from the situations if she's interested in me or not

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3393 days ago

6 September 2009 (M) - Hello, I am currently very interested in a girl I met in a class about a week ago, and I am left wondering what my next move should be. I am 21 years old, she is 20. So my main question is: "Is this girl interested in me, and if she is,...

How do I get her to talk to me and get over her fears?

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6 September 2009 (M) - I dated my girlfriend for 9 months. The last few months things got rocky, she was jealous of me spending time with my best friend (a girl) and all the rumors that were spread around about it. So she broke up with me, yet she still had very strong ...

Should I have accepted his marriage proposal?

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6 September 2009 (F) - I am 45yrs old and still a virgin. Had met someone who was introduced by a friend and i kinda like him,he is 57 widowed w four children. After a few months of constant communication he decided to proposed marriage and much to my excitement i ...

Flirting with me and yet found out she has a boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

6 September 2009 (M) - okay. i am a 30 year old male. a few months ago i started going to the library to study for school a few days per week. this went on for a while. while i was going, a girl that works there started being really friendly with me. i could tell she was ...

I'm 26, afraid of women and never had a girlfriend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

6 September 2009 (M) - Hello. I've got something i could do with some advice on and i've not gone on the net about it before so please forgive me if i maybe dont explain this particularly well but i'll give it a shot. Basically i recently turned 26 and i've never had a...

Should I give it a shot? She's now available!

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6 September 2009 (M) - Greetings, During 2006-2007 I(Male,39) was in an amateur theater group where I met a girl(Elli 26 then, 29 now). Elli and I would sometimes flirt and she would ask me questions about whether I was in a relationship. I think she was sort of a...

I don't want to mess with him if he has a g/f but I really like him

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6 September 2009 (F) - So, I'm going to start from the beginning. Last year, when I was in tenth grade, I changed schools (didn't move far away or anything, just changed schools) and I met this boy. He's good friends with one of my best friends (who I've known since ...