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writes:I've been going out with this guy, but recently we haven't had much time together since he's been extremely busy. He works full-time and goes to school as well. I focus more on my studies, so hence work less. Since we work at the same place, we do get to see each other, but not much time together (if we're lucky). He also admits that his hectic schedule puts strain on his relationship and a lot of women just give up on him because of it. He doesn't text me as much as before though. Does this mean he is no longer interested? Or is he really busy and doesn't have time to even text me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you! I appreciate your replies.
In terms of texting though, how often should he text me? It's nice to know that despite he's busy schedule, he's still thinking of me, you know.
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reader, unknown71121  +, writes (16 September 2009):
HelloFrom what you've said i honestly think he's still interested.He's admitted that he has a hectic schedule and that it puts strain on any relationship he has, so he's given you a notice of what to expect if you get involved really.So its really up to you whether you can be with a guy who doesnt really have time for you; or if your happy with him the way it is.Being with a guy who has a very busy schedule will be difficult no doubt, but if you's are both willing to make an effort and if the chemistry is there; go for it :)Best wishes for future...
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2009): SOunds like he's genuinely busy. Based on what you said, I'd say he's still interested in you but is texting less because he feels more confident that you are now together, ie he's no longer putting in that big effort trying to win you over because he just doesn't have the time to keep that up. That doesn't mean your relationship can't work though!
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