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Dating: Help and advice

She can only orgasm through the shower

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

9 September 2009 (M) - My girlfriend can only orgasm using the shower, she's unable to make herself orgasm either through masturbation and while oral sex brings her to the edge it never goes all the way through. She enjoys sex but gets frustrated by it all. Any ideas...

He said he wanted group sex and now I havent seen him for a week

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) - Well I have a boyfriend of about 6 months or did have. He was so romantic when I first met him, really interested in getting to know me take me out on fantastic great dates. He was amazing and sex was amazing, he would always tell me I was the best...

How can you tell peoples feelings over the internet?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) - How can you tell if someone likes you online? As in over MSN or something? This one guy starts a convo with me within first 10 mins every single time he signs in. Sometimes straight away. And he's always asking me about myself, and seems to want ...

Fell in love while working abroad, how can we make it work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5337 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) - This guy I met over the summer (we worked away together and are currently living in different countries) and I completely fell head over heels for each other without even meaning too. It just happened and it swept us off of our feet. The only thi...

How can I let him know I like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) - Today my guy friend on the bus made fun of his cousin sitting next to me so I would laugh. He said mad a dumb blond joke about me and I said that he was a natural blond and since he was a guy that he was stupid and he laughed.Does a guy like you? If ...

I miss my ex boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) - Okay so Im in this new relationship I really care about this guy lets call him jay, and my ex I still think about now that im a senior. I really just want to be over him like I cant help but think about him and everything we did and used to do I ...

I'd like to give him a romantic surprise to make up for our lost time

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) - Ok so i need some ideas and was wondering if anyone can help. I am away at college and will be going home for Christmas and was wondering what i should do or give to the love of my life. We have been together as a couple for only five months but ...

He used to be smart and no-nonsense. Now he's a manchild.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

9 September 2009 (?) - I am clueless what went wrong with this guy I dated for a year. He used to be very sensible and even if I wasn't so attracted to him, his being rational, smart and level headed made me fall in love with him thinking I found a man who is unique. He ...

Sweet without being too sweet?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) - How can you say sweet sentiments without being too sweet? It gets to a point where I feel like I sound like a really bad romantic novel....

Is it true that abscence makes the heart grow fonder?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) - Is it true that absence makes the heart grow fonder? And does a guy that youve spent so much time with, day in day out, reminice about all the moments and memories you two shared together; even if it were for just 4 months. Is it true that you could ...

I don't know whether to believe my boyfriend when he says he is not interested in any other women...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) - I'll try to make this as short and clear as possible. The thing is, i am insecure (as i have mentioned in my previous post) and probably will never overcome this character trait. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years. We are happy...well i ...

I need advice help with my long distance relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

9 September 2009 (M) - Hi, I have been in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend for a year and a month, now. We were together in Arcata, CA for my sophomore year (her freshman year) in high school; but my father's in the Army, so I got transferred to A...

I am seeing a wonderful man... so why am I so insecure?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) - Hello, I am seeing a wonderful man, he is full of compliments and hugs and makes me feel great. So, why am I so insecure? He has a LIFE! lol.. he goes and does and stays busy and I sit and worry and am so afraid this wonderful thing we have ...

We fight so often about the dumbest things!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5351 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) - We fight so often about the dumbest things! First of all, the things he has to say about me and how im messing up our relationship is myspace he wants my password to see who i talk to blah blah blah this and that cause according to him i have a ...

I feel as though my life is at a stand-still. Please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) - Please Help, I am 20 years old and have recently bought a house with my boyfriend of two and a half years which we moved into May 2009. Although I was over excited at the time I regret the decision I made with a vengeance. I feel like when I reac...

How can I be strong about this and move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5284 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) - did i do wrong in looking in my boyfriends phone? i looked at his text messages.. he texted this one chick i always thought he was screwing around with. told her to get some rubbers, im speechless. i dont wanna think about it. im the saddest girl on ...

I'm scared I'm going to be held back from life because of my anxiety! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5351 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) - This is pretty long... I'm 16 and I've never been in a proper relationship with anyone..boys or girls in my case. I've always been very introverted and in my own world..and whats more i have generalised stress disorder, which is pretty common b...

Am I pushing it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5351 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) - Hey world, Well my name is angel and ive been talking to this guy and it seemed as if we were getting closer and atuff but now i dont know.We have fight now like couples i talk to him about everything,and anything on my mind.Well yesterday i texted...

Is he really into me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) - dear rock and roll,if you read this message please, please answer this as i guess you were named before as rif raf?i really appreciate your answers.so please please and please reply to my question.and let me know if you are really rifraf.but i ...

My girlfriend no longer gives oral, how should I talk to her about it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

9 September 2009 (M) - Hi Ive been with my GF for just over a year now, theres talk of engagement, moving in together etc..in short its a serious relationship. We get on fab and when together the time flies by. But as far as intimacy goes things have gone downhil...

Did what I said push him away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) - I need help. I've been dating this guy for over 2 months. while we speak each day sometimes more than once,he is never clear on the direction of where we are going. he recently invited me to a family bbq who i know pretty well and he expected...

I feel like I can't live without my crush

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5345 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) - Hi i really need help, i met a boy in a school trip he was very funny and i like him, we talked everyday until late hours, he flirted on me but i knew he got a girlfriend, when i asked about her he didnt talke alot about it he only told me they were ...

How can I let her know how I feel about her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5351 days ago

9 September 2009 (M) - So there is a girl who I like, but she said we could only be friends because she got back together with her Ex. I want to know what a good thing to say to her would be to let her know how special she is to me....

I want my b/f & best friend to like each other!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5352 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) - Hey my name is Kate and I am 22 years old, my best friend for the last 10 years has been a guy named Derek. and when I say best friend I mean my everything, the person who I could spend hours watching movies with but neveer saying a word to, telling ...

Can a player settle down so quickly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) - I have been dating a man for the past 3 months now – he treats me really well, he’s a great cook, clean, loyal, has goals in life, promising career, a little overprotective (but that’s ok), independent and most importantly he puts me as his number ...

B/f says to delete myspace or he won't take me seriously

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) - my boyfriend tells me to delete my myspace or else his not guna take me surious!! ok my boyfriend and i have been together for about 4 years. he tells me he loves me an cares for me, and i belive him i know he does i love him too and really care. ...

Does my boss want to date me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5316 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) - I work at an office and recently my supervisor's boss has been showing interest. I am not sure whether he wants to date me or not. Any opinions help. He asked me my favorite restaurant then met me there after work. He paid and I offered to split ...

Should I take his advice and leave now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) - hello! ive met the most interesting guy on earth!and he's the smartest human i know! whenever he's in a room every girl would be looking at him wondering do i have a chance? let me start again and tell u everything i know!im into rock music ...

I want to date my ex's sister

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5352 days ago

9 September 2009 (M) - Ok so I've asked several questions about my ex girlfriend, she was my girlfriend when I asked the questions. She broke up with me after almost 7 months and I think I'm almost over her. Anyhow this question is not about her, It's about her sister, I ...

Am I being too cautious, or is he just a jerk using me as a plan B?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) - I asked a question last month about a 38-year-old guy whom I had a great first date with, but he talked (near the end of the date) about a hot 24-year-old who dumped him. Yep, he talked about another chick, on our first date. I'm 35. One week...