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*weetpie88
writes:hi guys. i been with my boyfriend for 6months and he is a very sweet and kind person and we both are madly in love with each other. we have talked about our future together. he always mention how he cant wait to get married to me and he calls me his wife sometimes. now we are going through finacial problems but he said as soon everythings gets back together we will sort our live. soon im going to leave my parents house to get my own place for uni. and he would like to move in with me and i reali do not have any problem. but my only worry is sometimes my family would come over to visit and if they found out it wont be a nice. my family they quite strict and we both have different religion and culture. plz help Reply to this Question
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reader, sweetpie88 +, writes (16 September 2009):
sweetpie88 is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank you for ur advice and i let u know everything.
but i just dnt wana upset them and again i dnt wana upset my bf and i wana live my life and see how it goes.
dnt worri i neva share my account details bcuz its one thing that i keep it private.
thank you again.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (16 September 2009):
 The reason I asked that is because if your parents were going to be paying for your housing and living expenses then you would have to follow their rules. But if you are paying your own way, and living with your boyfriend doesn't upset your moral compass then I would say go for it. You can't live your life in a manner just to please your parents. A word of warning however, do not share your bank account or make major purchases together. If you break up it can get very messy.
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reader, sweetpie88 +, writes (16 September 2009):
sweetpie88 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwe both going to pay the bills. so im not worried towards the bills
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (16 September 2009):
Are you paying your own bills or are your folks?
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