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Archived questions from: 17 September, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I'd like my b/f to communicate with me more and not be so shy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

17 September 2009 (F) - I have a boyfriend that I have been with for four months now. We have known eachother for almost 2 years and were best friends before we got together. I liked him for a long time and come to find out after telling him 4 months ago he was in love ...

My boyffriend's dad is breaking us up! Are we still together or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5326 days ago

17 September 2009 (F) - I know I just had a question exactly a month ago about another guy. Well, his friend had the same problem as me with breaking up at the same time I did. I asked him for advice, since he seemed to know what he was doing to get over his ex-girlfriend. ...

What did his answer on Facebook mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

17 September 2009 (F) - Hi! Ok I am so happy well before I said things that I regret to the boy I like allot and I apologised yesterday and he replied today and said.....haha we all make mistakes..... What should I say back? Does he like me back now? Signs: Sta...

Is she interested? I can't tell for sure.

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17 September 2009 (M) - Hey guys, i recently joined college, i'm only 16 and the girl i'm interested in is 17 she is in all of my classes i help her with her work ect ect but she keeps looking at me when i sit apart from her and smiling at me i wasn't sure if she was ...

How do I not scare him off and make sure I don't get hurt again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

17 September 2009 (F) - I was seeing a man for almost 2 years. We had chemistry and attraction and a connection and our moments together were very tender and special but during that time he also dated other women since he never committed himself to me. this hurt me very ...

Am I being selfish or is there something missing in my relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

17 September 2009 (F) - I have a boyfriend and we have been together for a year and a half. We just moved in together in July. We have good times and bad times, like any couple. We are incredibly attracted to each other, and have an awesome sex life. A few months a...

We broke up and I slept with his best friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

17 September 2009 (F) - one year ago my boyfriend broke up with me for no reason.I went off the deep end and did something i will regret for the rest of my life.I slept with one of his best friends. Awhile later me and my ex hung out and were talking, awhile later we both ...

He was affectionate with his ex but with me he's not

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

17 September 2009 (F) - dear cupid my boyfriend of three years is hardly ever afecionate with me. he told me he doesn't like public displays of affection and that he has never been very romantic etc...however i found out about four months ago that he used to be ro...

How can I find out things about him without getting hurt?

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17 September 2009 (F) - Hi. You may have guessed by now that I don't have the best luck in men. Five have been gay and the rest are just to horrible to speak about. Right... I've met this really nice guy at university. We're both in our early 20s and as far as I know we...

Two guys on my mind..which one to chose?

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17 September 2009 (F) - Hello :) okay so there are two guys on my mind right now, and I am having a very hard time choosing which one to go for. Guy one is very funny, he's very musical and really nice. However we only really talk online and we don't talk much at schoo...

I need advice before I decide how to progress with this friendship...

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17 September 2009 (F) - I've known this guy for a few years and we lost touch with each other when we both switched jobs, but now he's been working for the same company as me for the past 2 years. We've always got on really well and have loads in common. When we are at ...

Can a man change his mind about being in a relationship over time?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

17 September 2009 (F) - Is is possible when a guy says that he doesn't want a relationship to change his mind through time?? I have met a guy recently who has said that he is not ready for a relationship but last time we met - we talked lots and he did say that I spoke al...

My mom gave my boyfriend my underwear!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

17 September 2009 (F) - I have been struggling with this for a few weeks now, since I started college. To start... let me just say that I have an overbearing, overprotective helicopter mother. One of my guy friends call her "mama Sikorsky". Two weeks before I left fo...

How often does a guy contact you when getting to know you?

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17 September 2009 (F) - I guess a general question on when you start seeing someone.... How often do folk think that a guy should be contacting a girl when they are not really dating yet -just seeing each other when they can whilst they get to know each other a bit more...

I cant seem to let go! What's wrong with me?

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17 September 2009 (F) - Hi, I am going to be totally honest here because I think I am missing something, I am a 24 year old female, who has never had a proper boyfriend before, I never seem to click with anyone, however I have met a cute guy who seems interested, we h...

Do you think she regrets "settling" while she was so young?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

17 September 2009 (M) - I fear this may be a long post as I have a lot on my mind at the moment. My situation is as follows: I have been happily married to my wonderful wife for the past 7 years but our relationship dynamics have changed drastically over this ti...

Am I shallow for not wanting to date her again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

17 September 2009 (?) - Hey all, well Im a little bit ashamed of myself writing this. I think I may be a shallow guy and i never thought it before. My sister set me up on a blind date. I was dubious anyway but went along. When the Lady showed up I knew straight away th...

Looks... or personality???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

17 September 2009 (F) - I just needed to vent about this and get other people's opinions. Lately I've been browsing through a lot of dating/love advice sites, and I see numerous of threads where 13 year olds complain about not ever having a boyfriend. Not only that, b...

Can he ask for custody to our baby?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

17 September 2009 (F) - ive been dating a turkish guy for a year and got pregnant. My boyfriend didnt want to marry me but we still keep the baby, ill born my baby in turkey. I still have a contact with my bf. My question is: can he ask custody to our baby and what is my ...

Step cousins in love

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17 September 2009 (M) - Well I am 15 as well is my step cousin who I have a huge crush on. I've known her for about a year and a half and I like to flirt with her and she flirts with me a lot. My step dad said at the beginning of his and my mom's relationship that me and ...

Torn between 2 girls, part of me wants them both but know I can't do that!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

17 September 2009 (M) - Hello all, I'm really in need of some impartial advice. I am 24 and I have been going out with a girl for over 3 and a half years now. Due to our locations and the hours we work we have only been able to see eachother once a week for the whole time ...

What's wrong with me? Why do guys always put me in the "friend zone"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

17 September 2009 (F) - Okay so I feel ridiculous for saying this out loud because Men do not validate you and your life but I feel like something must be wrong with me. I don't think I'm that cute or pretty (I mean I might have an ok face but I don't really like my body) ...

Advice for someone stuck between 2 guys

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5344 days ago

17 September 2009 (F) - Well im stuck between two guys. One was my first true love and i fell for him so hard its unbelivable but he lives an hour away and i rarelly get to see him. Everything between us was absolutely perfect but we started drifting apart and one of my ...

I'm aroused before sex, but not during it! How does this make sense?

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17 September 2009 (F) - hi I have been with my boyfriend 1 year and 5 months every time he touch me or said something to me I get horny but when I'm having sex with him I don't get horny at all what does that mean? do that mean I don't love him because I feel like I love ...

I need advice for meeting her parents for the first time!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

17 September 2009 (M) - Ok. I need some advice from you people out there willing to help me. So my GF finally decided to tell her parents about us, and surprisingly her dad didnt take it the way we thought he was going to. On the other hand, her mom was somewhat upset w...

Dating a man, and developing deep feelings for him, but the no sex thing has me confused!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

17 September 2009 (F) - I have been dating a man for 6 weeks. He is very nice and I'm beginning to have deep feelings for him. The problem is, I don't know if he feels the same. He told me that in the past, he has had a tendency to get very involved very quickly. The ...

Do men like to chase? Or do they actually like slightly aggressive women?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

17 September 2009 (F) - I've been wondering this as I've read some books as well as some articles online about women basically using manipulation or playing games to keep a man interested. Simply put: men like to chase. However, I'm starting to believe it's BS, and was ...

I used to be frightened of her, she thinks I'm a twerp, but I like her!

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17 September 2009 (M) - i like a girl in my school, alot. she has alot in comon with my interests , but the only problem is that she has a 5 year hate on me. to her ive been an annoying little twerp. ive acctualy disliked her for a long time, ignoring her, fearing her ...