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Archived questions from: 12 September, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I'm definite proof that nice guys finish last

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

12 September 2009 (M) - OK, so I've asked questions on here before, got some advice, but a year on, I'm still in exactly the same situation. I'm now 25, and still never had a date. Never had a girl say yes when I've asked her out, or don't think there's ever been a girl ...

Should I continue to flirt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

12 September 2009 (F) - Ok, this might sound really corny what i done... So I like this boy, and i think he likes me too (but im not sure anymore. He was recently moved to my P.E. class so he sat next to me on the coach. We talked alot as we have the same interests a...

How can I make him think I'm losing interest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

12 September 2009 (F) - I think I said too much and now regret it. I know guys like the chase and want to be the first to say how they feel. I just cant help myself and I told the guy I like that I dont know if hes into me (he now knows i talk about him with my friends,...

My boyfriends best male friend calls him all the time, even at night. Am I over reacting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

12 September 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly 2yrs and in that time his best friend who is a boy calls him upto 10 times a day, whether he's at work with me, anytime even at night he calls him. Its really annoying, am i over reacting ?...

I had to invite myself, now I don't know how to discuss it

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12 September 2009 (F) - I started dating a friend of a friend. Before we became involved, I used to always ask him what was up on the weekend and he'd invite me to go out to the bar with our friends or sometimes just his friends. Last night I asked him if we could get ...

For the guys: How often do you call a girl?

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12 September 2009 (F) - Question for guys: How often do you call a girl you are sorta interested in but its really new and fresh and your taking it slow. Is it once a week? once every 2 weeks?...

My boyfriend is underweight, and I'm worried about him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

12 September 2009 (F) - Ive always known my boyfriend is very small framed. Recently we were discussing weight, because I've been trying to lose a few extra pounds. And he stated that he weighs 110. He is only 5'10 in height.T his makes his bmi at 15.8! Is this normal and ...

I can't tell if he is just being friendly or wants more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5349 days ago

12 September 2009 (F) - My friend Rob and I have know each other for a year or more and he started out a long time ago acting nice and flirting. He used to have me listen to his music and watch videos on his ipod, I did a word search and he would write our names on it, ...

Why do men and women make it so hard to build a relationship together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

12 September 2009 (M) - Ok so this is really a question for men who have been through the same thing and women who have told a guy this and what it really meant for them. I'm in love with this girl for quite some time now. She is my best friend. so much so that I dont ...

Why do women have checklists for potential boyfriends? Is it all about box ticking?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

I'm 35 and she is 21, would people care about the age difference?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

12 September 2009 (M) - I'm 35 and just signed my divorce papers to finalize my divorce. We were separated for almost a year and I found myself becoming friends with my neighbors. I was physically attracted to the one girl from the day I met her and she was the same. Since ...

Is he shy? Not into me? Unsure?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

12 September 2009 (F) - I've 'dated' guys who want to get physical too soon and most often when I say no they just disappear on me. It hurts at the time but I get over it and realize they weren't worth much in the end anyway. Right now I've been on four dates with a guy...

Is it ok for me to be jealous?

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12 September 2009 (M) - my girlfriend keeps calling this one girls babe and sayin ilu and i miss u 2 each other all the time and they haven't even met i have asked to stop kindly but she is still saying those things. is it ok 2 b jealous?...

I want to get closer to him but don't want him to think I'm feeling sorry for him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

12 September 2009 (F) - I have been in a troubled relationship and noticed it morewhen I started developing a crush on my hairdresser - single parent. His dad died of prostrate cancer. It never went anywhere the crush I believe was two ways as I could tell by the way he ...

I can't find someone to be with!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5349 days ago

12 September 2009 (F) - This is really starting to become upsetting to me. I'm almost 19. Ive dated two people. neither for more then a month, but yeah, it's really starting to upset me that I can't find someone to actually be with. I'm not ugly (people always tell me ...

She's not really affectionate with me and now I found out another guy likes her

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12 September 2009 (M) - Hello dear cupid, my problem is this. Me and my girlfriend have been going out for a few months now, and let's face it. She hasn't been the warmest of girlfriends. She never hugged or kissed in public, through the months, she has difficulty with ...

How can I talk to my brother about my relationship and make him understand?

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12 September 2009 (M) - I am 17 and am in a relationship with a girl who is older than me with 3 years,my senior brother knows about it but we dont talk about it,we come from a family that is highly religious and having a girlfriend is considered a sin. How can i talk to ...

How do I get her off my mind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

12 September 2009 (M) - I have been crushing over this girl for over 5 years now, but I cant ask her out as she already has a boyfriend(of 3 years). She doesn't know about my feelings for her. What bothers me is that she speaks to me when we are out of school but ignores ...

He stares and smiles at me, does he fancy me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

12 September 2009 (F) - Theres this guy and ive seen him on my daily routine for awhile when im out and about and i always catch him staring at me and the other day for the first time we were on the same path which had road works and he walked on to the road to let me ...

Should I stand aside or tell her I love her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

12 September 2009 (M) - Hey everybody, i'm a 20 year old guy who's in terrible pain. I'm in love with my 22 year old manager. This is a very long story so please bear with me. It all started 2 years ago. I got a job at a bookshop because I had to earn money for an eye...

Why do they give me their numbers if they don't want me to call?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

12 September 2009 (M) - Hey I have a big problem..whenever I go clubbing and partying I always get numbers from women. On average I get about 3-5 numbers per night but whenever I call them they usually seem to be more than ready to not talk to me. What's going on here and ...

Why can't men commit to one woman?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

12 September 2009 (F) - Y is it hard for men to commit.They act as if they are in a realationship but at the same time just not saying it.But if they see the women with someone else than they want to claim her but to a certain point. I was in a three relationship with this ...

Tired of being the good girl all the time!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

12 September 2009 (F) - Life is to short to have to worry about if and when the right man would come along. I am a single mother of a daughter that is seventeen. I have always tried to do what was best for her. I never brought her around to many men that I have dated. She ...

I'm in love with my bestfriend, all his actions and friends, say he loves me too...all ..except him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

12 September 2009 (F) - Oh goodness, where do I start? So as the title states, I'm completely and honestly in love with my best friend. He and I have known each other since we were about 9 and there's nobody in this world that knows more about me than him. We're ...

My girlfriend feels in some ways inferior to me in knowledge and tries to avoid me because of this..?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5349 days ago

12 September 2009 (M) - My girlfriend would feel she is not matured whenever we are together and because of this she feels she is inferior as she compares the amount of general knowledge I have on daily life. She is trying hard not to see me as frequent as possible. How ...

I'm from Montana, and dating my fifth cousin. Does anyone know if this is illegal?

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12 September 2009 (M) - i'm from montana and i found out i'm going out with my fifth cousin, is it illegal for us to be going out? or would everything be ok...

How do I know whether I'm over my ex, or I'm trying to find a rebound to move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5350 days ago

12 September 2009 (M) - 2 months ago my gf if u can call it that broke up and we talked everyday but when she told me she was hooking up with guys when she was drunk i was jealous but didnt tell her. a month ago i told her that i couldnt be friends with her anylonger if ...

Should I make him choose between me and his ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5350 days ago

12 September 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of 9 months is friends with his ex, and it's driving me nuts. He was friends with her 2 years before they got together, for 2 months, and they remained friends after the breakup. They've been friends 5 years now, and I only got together ...

What should I do with this Capricorn guy? I feel like I'm the only consistant in this relationship!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

12 September 2009 (F) - I have been dating my Capricorn guy for 5 months,everything was just great at the begining and slowly he was pulling away stopped calling txting..etc, unless if i did! second he was like let us be close friends! and thats what he told me that he ...

I've only ever had the one partner..and I'm fantasising about other men because of this..!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5349 days ago

12 September 2009 (F) - Im having feelings for another guy, well more like fantasizing what it would be like to be with him and I feel badly because I have a boyfriend whom I've been with for a year and five months, and who I love very much. But he's the only guy I have ...

This is the email he sent me..does he like me , or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

12 September 2009 (F) - Basically I Saw this boy at this convention I been through 3 days I kind of no him But I never spoke to him.He was watching me 3 days blah blah its really long yeah I had 3witnesses watching him and they said Yeah he does preety much Like me,I ...

He didn't bother telling me he wouldn't be able to meet as we'd arranged! He is wrecking with my head!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5346 days ago

12 September 2009 (F) - ok im starting to get really f***ing annoyed right now im in my last year of school doing my a levels and so is my boyfriend we spent a lot of time together in the summer an grew alot closer staying over in each others houses etc were back to s...