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Dating: Help and advice

My boyfriend didn't add me as a friend on FB, but he did add her. It's either her or me...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I've been dating this guy for about a year now and at first the relationship was good, but now it's turning sour. I’m having a problem with him emailing his ex girlfriend as well as she emails him and he has her on his face book and I se...

My boyfriend is romantic and seductive... except for the way he rams his tongue down my throat!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is very romantic and seductive. He makes me feel so hot, but once we kiss he always wants to french right away and as soon as my lips part he jams his tongue down my throat so hard it chokes and gags me, and even makes my throat hurt ...

I called my crush, but then panicked and hung up only 30 seconds into the call! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5360 days ago

1 September 2009 (M) - So, i called my crush for the first time, got her number yesterday, she picked up, i said "just wanted to know if the science teacher had any homework, i cant find any papers from him but im pretty sure he had some sort of homework that he gave ...

Should I wait to go out with him until he's completely over her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5360 days ago

1 September 2009 (?) - What I want advice on is whether I should go out with this boy. He is so sweet and kind and gorgeous. He's not the type to go flirting with everyone but he has been flirting with me a lot. All his and my friends noticed and said that we should go ...

Rejected because she 'doesn't do' commitment!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5360 days ago

1 September 2009 (M) - I have harboured feelings for a girl for over a year and a half and after finally finding enough courage to ask her out, I was rejected because she 'doesn't do commitment.' I'm not angry with her or anything because we've been best friends for two ...

If he fancied me, he would have asked me out, right?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5360 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - I really need some clarification, ok there is a guy I have liked a a couple of years and always seemed like he was into me as well, we have had a couple of snogs, but like months apart, he has recently said he fancys me but he never asks me out, I ...

My boyfirends ex cant get over him, and I want her out of our lives

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - My boyfriend has this one friend (that is a girl) and they used to date. It never got serious with her because she went crazy on him and tried to get pregnant by him. Anyways, me and him briefly broke up then recently got back together. We are...

My dad died, how can I get my mum into a new relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

1 September 2009 (M) - My mother is alone after my dad passed away, I want that she should take up new relationship. How to make her agree to go ahead and find some one for her? I can't talk with her as i feel embrassed. Please suggest?...

How do I go about telling her that I have feelings for her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5357 days ago

1 September 2009 (M) - I met a girl online recently and we've been chatt'n i then started to have feelings for her although she has a boyfriend.i need some clue's to tell'n her how i feel without being too straight forward....

Is it normal to feel like you have nothing in common with your boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - Hi I was just wondering, is it normal to feel you have nothing in common with your boyfriend, and feel like you have absolutely nothing to say to them? This is not a position I have been in before, and would like some opinions. Is this comm...

I don't see myself being with new b/f longterm, should I go back to my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - Okay so im in a really bad situation me and my ex were such a lovely couple when we were together (he lives in a diffrent country) but we drifted apart after 2 years of being together i still love him but i met this new guy we've been seeing e...

Is he trying to say that he wants something more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5318 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - Hey i asked a question called "We're apparently good friends, so is there a reason why we hardly talk to each other?" about 2 weeks ago and thanks for all the help you gave me! You seemed to have the idea that this guy had feelings for me/...

We fight and fight and fight... and love.... and fight, and fight some more - Please help

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

1 September 2009 (M) - Hi there, long message coming up. Im feeling quite depressed, so i'm probably going to sound like someone blabbering senselessly. Please read my message and try to make sense. Ive been in a very loving relationship for about a year no...

I'm worried I might be wasting time on this man, I really want to settle down with him but he seems to be unsure of what he wants!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - Dear Aunts, I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now - I am 34, he is 39. Neither of us has children, although he has been married before when he was in his early twenties. Their breakup was amicable, they had grown apart. At the...

Am I being unreasonable for not wanting him to stay at this woman's house after she declared her love for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - Hello. This isn't so much of a question as a need for reassurance. My boyfriend, of 5 and a half years, has been friends with a girl (mainly via the internet) for about 12 years. He has been to stay with her a few times, and she lives far away. When ...

Is my girl using me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5357 days ago

1 September 2009 (M) - Ever since i let my girlfriend move in with me she has changed so much. When we first met she was active, sporty and outgoing but ever since she moved in with me she has changed so much. She don't goto the gym anymore, she never does housewor...

What are usual signs that a husband is straying

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5360 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - Hi' I wrote a year ago about husband and secrets revolving his mother, money. We still fight occasionally,usually about our families. On whole we seem like we're a lot closer-lots of intimacy,bubble baths, We,e talked over a lot of issues.Other than ...

Will relationship doubts go away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

1 September 2009 (M) - Okay so, heres my story. Ive been with my girlfriend for 10 months. And about a month ago i litterlly woke up and felt like i lost my feelings for her. One day i was soo in love with her and loved her with all my heart. now i question if i do. i ...

Lack of confidence and ideas, I want to surprise and treat my man.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - I am in a relationship with the most loving and caring guy you would know. However in the bedroom he always takes the lead and control because I struggle to know what to do and get really self conscious. I was wondering if anyone had any ideas ...

Long Distance Relationship - Girlfriend acting weird

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

1 September 2009 (M) - I and my girlfriend are in a long distance relationship since 3 years and 2 months. In the beginning, everything was so blossomy and absolutely superb. She didn’t have enough very good friends as such, and she always used to come to me, and discuss ...

Girls, do you make eye contact with guys you are not interested in?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

1 September 2009 (M) - like when you pass some one in a store or at a beach walk also if some one you thought was say ugly or creepy and he started to look you in the eyes would you make eye contact untill he looks away or would you quickly look away first well that's all...

Could it be that my friend likes me? And how do I suggest to him that I like him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5360 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - i'm not sure if one of my guy friends likes me, he texts me everyday, hugs me alot and a couple of days ago he put his arm round me. we were talking and he said that he couldnt tell me who he and his friend were talking about and then i asked could ...

Is it possible to have no sex appeal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - Why aren't guys attracted to me? Guys never approach but they are always approaching other women, all types. Is it possible to have NO sex appeal? I could be lacking an inate appeal that women supposedly have. What do men look for?...

I feel hot and yet ugly all at the same time

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5361 days ago

1 September 2009 (M) - so this may sound kinda stupid but I'm 25 years old and never had a girlfriend so obviousley I feel like a dork and I'm very shy but I want to know is that what are the chances that I'm acctually really hot because ussually when I go places I see ...

I have to see him but he keeps pursuing me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5320 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - The guy I was seeing (for two months) ended things when I told him I was moving to another part of town. He said it was because he started talking to his ex again but I knew the real reason. Anyway, although I moved to another part, I still hang out ...

Should I go out with him, or should I just get back at him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5361 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - I went out with this dude for 2 weeks, i broke up with him cuz i didnt want to be in a non-serious relationship, i mean he's player, always flirtin with other girls and he used to go out with 2 girls at once plus he didnt really treat me good. its ...

Why doesn't my girlfriend seem to enjoy kissing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

1 September 2009 (M) - So the me and my girlfriend have only kissed once. I love my girlfriend more than anything in the world but we've only kissed one time. We've been dating for about 6 months now, she's 14 and I'm 16, we do everything except kiss (and sex of course), ...

Slept together the night we met: not sure if he's interested, or just being nice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - So two weekends ago I met this guy out at a club. I found him very attractive and he kept complimenting me, etc. Being that I had been out of a relationship for several months, I was feeling the need for...sex. So to make a long story short, we ...

It's been over a year since I had a date!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5361 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - Okay, so I am a divorced mom and I know that a lot of men are turned off by women with childern, afraid of baggage or whatever. But it has been OVER A YEAR since I have gone a date. I am on match.com and a couple other dating sites, and the only ...

I need a reason to call her! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5361 days ago

1 September 2009 (M) - So, im in 9th grade, me and my crush are getting along great, flirting alot and stuff, i just got her number today, and i really want to call her, the problem is i have no reason to. We have no homework, we arent actually girlfriend and boyfriend ...

Will my boyfriend cheat on me or leave me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5361 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - My bf just went to college a couple weeks ago. he has been acting weird. I haven't talked to him much even though its a local college. we haven't seen each other since he went. I know he loves to drink and party. do you think he will cheat on me or ...