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Dating: Help and advice

Dating an ex-boyfriends best friend..go? or no go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5358 days ago

3 September 2009 (F) - Should I take this risk... I was a guy around four months ago and it didn't work out between us however we are still on speaking terms and I would say we are 'aquaintances' rather than friends. Over the past month or so me and a friend of his ha...

We are msn friends, but she never initiates a text or a call! Should I text her more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5357 days ago

3 September 2009 (M) - Hi how do I talk to this girl in school I have her phone number, msn and stuff but she never texts me (unless I text her first) or she nevers starts the conversation on msn. I think she used to think I liked her but how do I hint to her that I like ...

He liked me so why did he pick another girl over me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5358 days ago

3 September 2009 (F) - basically....lasy year mn and some mates went out to one of my other driends bday at a club...i got a bit but not drunk. the entie time we were there i knew i just had a connection withthis guy who was also there for her bday. he satyed with me the ...

Why can't I be around his daughter? Is he ashamed of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

3 September 2009 (F) - Theresz disz guy that i have been talkin to for a year now. hes 31 and has a 4 year old daughter. im 18 years old, so thats not the problem..whenever i want to come ova, his daughter isnt there. he told me nobody comes ova wen his daughter is there, ...

Opinions needed! Why has he not text me back???

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

3 September 2009 (F) - Why has he not text back? I slept with a guy 6 days ago after the 3rd date. We only want a casual thing but i want to know if it is going to happen again. The thing is i asked him afterwards if i would see him again, he said yes but didnt kno...

What's expected of a Homecoming date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5358 days ago

3 September 2009 (M) - Ok so I need to know what is expected of a women when going to homecoming. I'm in the 9th grade and I'm 16 (yes I failed twice) but my girlfriend is 14 and homecoming is on October 10th and I need to know what all I am supposed to do. Should I take ...

Why doesn't she tell me she loves me anymore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

3 September 2009 (M) - My girlfriend won't tell me she loves me anymore. It's just bothering me because she used to tell me she loved me but now she just won't and I don't know why. We've only been dating 6 months and she's only 14 and I'm only 16 but I just don't know ...

Too old for this "Does he love me or doesn't he? routine!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

3 September 2009 (F) - This man is driving me nuts!!!!!!!!!!!! We get on well. Very well and always have a great time and laugh. He knows I'm strong and I won't put up with crap!!! But this thing of "does he love me does he love not" is getting kind of tiring and boring. ...

Lots of eye contact but when I tried to talk to her, she said no

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5358 days ago

3 September 2009 (M) - I am trying to figure out if this girl is interested in me or not.She works in the same office building as mine but for another company and there is a common roaming area for all downstairs.I had been noticing her for last 2 years though i never ...

Destined to be single and alone for the rest of my life

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5357 days ago

3 September 2009 (M) - I'm late 20's and never had a girlfriend and don't think I'll ever have one. When I was a child I was often called ugly by girls, this made me resent them, and I never so much as bothered try to talk to a female about going on a date. During my...

Is his cannabis really any worse than me having the occasional fag socially on a night out?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

3 September 2009 (F) - Hi - really just looking for some opinions and advice. I've recently got back with my high school sweetheart after 5 years apart and everythin is gonig really well, however I've recently learned that he smoke cannais maybe once every one to two ...

Can someone please tell me what's going on in his head??

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3 September 2009 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me about a month ago and I have been devastated. I really love him, but I read that if I ever wanted him back I should cut all contact, so I did. I heard through the grapevine that he had gotten a new mobile phone number ...

Can someone tell me what the hell happened here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

3 September 2009 (F) - I have dated a guy for 3 months whom I really liked and we got on very well, he told me that he enjoys my company very much and there was also lots of chemistry. After around 6 weeks he asked me to see each other exclusively. He was not always v...

I proposed and now she wont answer my calls!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

3 September 2009 (M) - kindly help me out, am finding it difficult with my relationship.acturally i propose to lady and her reaction has been so bad that she hardly pick my calls.am so worried in that i usually find myself thinking about her,emotionally am not balanced.i ...

Who do I choose, Guy A or Guy B?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

3 September 2009 (F) - Okaay guys, I need help and fast! I fell in love with this guy, lets call him Guy A. We had something so special and a lot in common. However I listened to a small rumour, said by a friend who I know liked my Guy A. Now I realise she could have bee...

How do I build a sexual connection with an experienced woman with concern to the issue that I lack experience?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

3 September 2009 (M) - Hello everyone. I have a problem. I've been dating this woman and its gotten up to the third date. She is two years older than me, much more experienced, and voiced that she does not want bad sex. I've only had sex with one girl in my life and e...

Should I wait or move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

3 September 2009 (F) - HEy i really need help well i've liked this guy now not for too long as i never really realised that i did but alot of sutff has happened. he came over other night i had a little gathering we were there we held hands like magic it was mental i...

I love her and she doesn't want anyone to know about us

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

3 September 2009 (M) - hi just wondering what to do i love this girl very much but she doesnt want annyone to know about us only a few people know about us every time i go to school and sit around her its like hiting a brick wall in our relationship she tells me s...

Early in relationship shes saying she wants to settle down

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5359 days ago

3 September 2009 (M) - This is the whole story of my last 2 months: It was a girl I knew since high school, but we never kept in touch, and now a couple months back, I met her again for the first time. After the first meeting, we really clicked and our conversations we...

How do I tell my mom about the older man?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5359 days ago

3 September 2009 (F) - im 18 years old, and i hve been talkin to this guy for a yr now. hes 31 years old . i really like him, moree then anyone knows and i dnt want to keep hiding things from my mom. we have such a close relationahip but i want to be more open with her. ...

Why hasn't he made me his girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

3 September 2009 (F) - ive been talking to this guy for about a year now. we arent officially together but the topic of being in a relationship has come up once or twice. me and him have been through a lot....i really like him, i may even love him. hes told me that he ...

What's the big deal about race?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

3 September 2009 (F) - I don't understand what the big deal about race is. I've been in an interracial relationship for nearly 3 years and my fiances family and friends seem to focus a lot on me being white. His family is latino and were born in mexico and his friends are ...

My dating problems seem to come from preferring to be alone

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

3 September 2009 (F) - I've been thinking a lot about my dating problems (as you do) and I think what it all boils down to is that I just like being on my own. Does anyone else feel like this too? I like being independent, cooking and shopping for myself and I even prefer ...

He changed his pet name for me -- am I overthinking this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

3 September 2009 (F) - I know that this question is ridiculous -- I'm embarrassed to ask my friends because I understand how silly it sounds. But the guy I've been dating for a little while has suddenly stopped calling me "sexy" and now calls me "baby" exclusively. We ...

Wasting my time and he isn't that interested?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

3 September 2009 (F) - I have been dating a great man for a for a few months now and just recently, a friend of mine mentioned that he was back on the dating website we meet on and he is active. My friend had signed up when I told her how wonderful it was meeting him, she ...

Looking for a vacation spot for singles

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

3 September 2009 (M) - I recently became single me and my girl friend broke up. I dont really have much time for dating, Because of Work and School. At work I have some Vacation days. Looking for a place for "single" only kinda thing. Im pretty sure there round any one ...