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anonymous
writes:My parents forbid me from my boyfriend and his friends.I had two parties at my house one weekend while they were gone but my aunt was watching me and was aware of what was going on, plus my mom gave me permission to have people over. But that that many and not to late.Well I cleaned everything up and when they got back my basement smelled like cigarettes and my step dad found condoms in my yard, I got scared and said I lost my v that night and took the blame for everything. I did have sex that night but that wasn't my bf's condom someone threw it out to be immature.Well since then I've been sneaking around to be with my boyfriend. We have been together for almost 6 months now and I love him, we want to be together. It's just hard having to sneak around and it's getting annoying because I can never be calm. We want to be able to go to each other's houses even though I know my parents won't allow him here but I would be allowed at his house. My parents only have that hate is because he took my v but that was my personal choice. They think he smokes everyday but he really doesn't. I made the mistake being completely honest with them and telling them we would go out and drink and his friends smoked, I did say he did. But he really did quit he has to, not just because I don't like it but because he got in trouble from it. Also because he recently quit his job and doesn't have one now. But I just got a job over the summer and my ex bf didn't have a job so I don't know why that plays a factor with my boyfriend now. I need to figure out a way how to tell my mom that I want to be with him and I'm willing to cooperate with the rules that will come along with it, I just want to be able to be his girlfriend and not have to be worried my parents see me drive to his house.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2009): Your parents got a shock. They trusted you home alone, and then found out (or so you let them believe) that their little girl had not only grown up, but left the condom in their yard as proof.
They're never going to accept him. You simply flung too much into their faces.
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reader, 24yeahright  +, writes (16 September 2009):
So you thought that lying about the party and instead saying you lost your virginity and left the condom on your lawn would be better than just owning up? I don't even know where to begin to respond to that.
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