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writes:Hey.I'm 16, and really concerned about my Love Life. Well i cant call it that, as i've never actualy had one. I've never actualy had a proper girlfriend, i've 'seen' girls but not been in an actual relationship. I always get mucked about by girls, whether the girl would go off me, run off with someone else, ignore me etc. I'm concerned becuase it's getting me really down/depressed. I'm confident, easy to talk to etc, i don't see what i do wrong. Has anyone had the same trouble or does anyone know how to go about my girl problems. I find it's alot of pressure as im 16/in a quite successful band atm, and i haven't actualy done anything with a girl apart from Kiss. Please Help, thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, Mymistake123 +, writes (23 October 2009):
Mymistake123 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks alot people. Really appreciate your help. Maybe it isn't so bad, and that a girl will find me. It does get me down alot when girls treat me bad, but i see all your points. Thanks again, if i need any help, i know i can count on all of you to give a really good honest opinion and not just say anything
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reader, Aulin  +, writes (23 October 2009):
Hey, why are you so worried? I'm 17 and i never had any gf. I didn't even kiss anyone. Just build yourself and wait.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2009): I don't know why you're being treated the way you are by girls, as you seem like a good guy. But I can tell you you certainly shouldn't be worried or feel pressure about not having done anything but kiss. There's no deadline. You're not under any obligation to do anything by a certain age. You're only sixteen, take it easy. Relax. I get the feeling things will start to happen for you.
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reader, Blod  +, writes (22 October 2009):
 There's more to life than girls. If you think about it, what does it matter that you haven't had a proper girlfriend? You're 16, young, enjoying your life and you seem pretty happy as a person. It doesn't sound like you have any major problem that pushes girls away. You'll just have to give it time and you'll find the right girl.Just be glad that you have kissed someone at least. There are a hell of a lot of people your age who are desperate for just a kiss! You have plently of time. Forget about it, and it'll happen. Good Luck. X
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (22 October 2009):
I didn't have my first actual girlfriend until I was nearly 17. She was great, but it didn't work out. Now I'm 22, I'm in a great relationship with someone else. The point is, dont panic. You have time. Really work on being a great guy, and the right girl will find you. give yourself time and focus on yourself. There's no rush.
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