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If I am a virgin, am I able to have an orgasm?

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Question - (21 October 2009) 7 Answers - (Newest, 28 October 2009)
A female United States age 16-17, anonymous writes:

What if he says no? I really like this guy and want to take it further than friendship but what if he does not like me more than a friend? I feel like I am falling in love with him but he does not like me. He gives me a hug everyday but only if I hold out my arms and we danced together at homecoming (not a slow song)

Random question sorry just curious not thinking about having sex... if I am a virgin am I able to have an orgasm?

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A female reader, Ravenxx91 United Kingdom + , writes (28 October 2009):

Ravenxx91 agony auntAs for the start dont hold off for him, tell him your feelings, if hes not interested dont beat yourself up about it.

second question

I can happyily say you can orgasm AND remain a virgin pretty simply...

Its called recieving Oral Sex, or Masturbation x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2009):

Inside the vagina how do I stimulate that?

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A female reader, satindesire United States +, writes (22 October 2009):

satindesire agony auntNo, most girls reach orgasm through stimulating their clitoris, which is located just north of the vagina's entrance. Even if you did want to stimulate the inside of your vagina, you can do that with your fingers very easily, you don't have to have a penis do it.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2009):

Thank you and I thought masterbation was only in your vagina. I want a 'toy' to help this but I am nervous to talk to my mom about it what do i do?

Same person who asked 1st question

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A female reader, satindesire United States +, writes (22 October 2009):

satindesire agony auntYou don't have to have intercourse in order to have an orgasm. You can bring yourself to orgasm through masturbation.

Are you on birth control? You are aware of the fact that no birth control is 100% effective.

http://www.dearcupid.org/question/thinking-about-losing-your-virginity.html

Read this.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2009):

For your first question i think you should just go for it I mean my best friend asked me out and I said yess and here we are 6 months later lol.

Jump in.

And as for the orgasm, yes you should be able to orgasm on your own. Have you heard of masturbation?

Good luck and Stay A Virgin.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2009):

About the orgasm thing. Generally, if you can orgasm on your own, you can at least develop the ability to orgasm with a partner. However, if you can't orgasm on your own, then it's not likely to happen with a partner either.

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