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What should I do if I've been turned down 10 times by girls in 3 months?

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Question - (21 October 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 21 October 2009)
A male United States age 26-29, *az_emo writes:

What should i do if i've been turned down 10 times by tons of girls, in 3 months? I'm nice to them, and it seems like they always say either: No, I'm taken, or I'm not looking for a boyfriend at the momnt.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (21 October 2009):

My theory is that you're asking so many out, they all think you're desperate. Instead of asking them out, get to know them really well, and let them get to know you.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2009):

Sorry gotta add this

Just relax and dont worry about it so much. You are still young. Theres plenty of time to find someone special to argue with later.

ok then my actual advice:

The secret is to make friends with a couple of girls and really get to know them (dont look at them as girlfriends). They will show you how girls are and even how to ask them out. You may even hook up with one of their friends!

If your giving off the desperate scient then no girl will want you.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2009):

10 girls in 3 months, are you just looking for a girlfriend? Shouldn't you try to find a girl you actually care about, establish a basic relationship with them, hang out, then ask them out, don't just randomly ask them after a few days of knowing them, too weird. Just relax, you'll get one if your patient, don't just ask out random girls.

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