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He said we shouldn't date because he's friends of my ex

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Question - (9 January 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 9 January 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

SO I have been seeing this guy for a while now.. last night we were making out and it lead to us almost having sex... we didn't have sex cause he couldn't get it up .. this has happened before where he has issues with staying erect.. I think this guy is amazing .. he makes me laugh.. we have so much fun together BUT the way I know him is he's a friend of my ex boyfriend of 4 years .. my ex bf doesn't know him and I are talking and I don't think he'll ever tell him .. but this is beside the point last night when he couldn't get it after we started talking and he started saying.. i'm too good for him..how him and i could only ever be friends because im his friends ex girlfriend .. I got so upset .. When he dropped me home I told him to never call or text me again.. is it that he just didn't want to date me anymore? I really liked him.. even he said we would be great together .. but i dont get it if he thought that than why wouldn't want to fight to be together

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A female reader, tumelo  +, writes (9 January 2009):

1 wrong for getting mad at this wonderfull guy.

obviously he cherish his friendship with his buddy.

secondly dont you know it is always a bad idea to get involved with a friend's ex, one is he might be thinking that you wanna date him to get back at his buddy,i mean you and your ex dated 4 years duh,

so i think if you care for this you will just have to respect his decision.

i applaud him for not taking advantage of the situation and remain true to his feelings by not even having sex with you.

this guy deserves a hand,but you might have also misinterpreted his friendliness for something else,

take care girl

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