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writes:It all started off with a boy I really really fancied in the of year 7 and I really like him soo much, he is just a couple months younger than me but he is in my form but he said he has never been attracted to me. I tried to move on and pretend I don't like him either but nothing works!!! I think about it every day, I go all hyper and happy wen he signs on msn, I get excited about seeing him and talking to him and when I do talk to him I always stumble and talk about rubbish. Then there was a huge fallout with me and him because I had sex with his older brother because his brother came on to me. Now he doesn't like me as a friend any more so I have been in a relationship with his brother for 7 months now and all the time I just think of his younger brother :( it's soo confussing! there's no spark there with his brother but I feel like I'm really good mates with his older brother :( What should I do? I feel like I have stronger feelings for him not his older brother :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHis older brother does know how i feel about his younger brother and he doesnt care cus he is so inlove with me. thanks for the help :D I think its just a silly crush really that i think will stay with me for a long time cus he was the 1 i first had feelings for when you go through development.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2009): Well, you should definitely stop having sex with his brother!! That's the obvious thing - you'll regret it in the future if you don't. You might create issues for yourself. I also think you should resign yourself to the fact that this guy doesn't want to be with you. If he's told you that he hasn't ever thought of you in the context of a relationship then he never will with you having slept with his brother, so I'm sorry but you're going to have to move on even though it will be hard for you. x
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reader, bich-15 +, writes (9 January 2009):
 Hunny I think that you should let his older brother know how you feel about him because it's not fair to lead him on. If you and the younger brother had a fall out because you slept with his brother, then he must have some sort of feelings for you even if it's just friendship, but if that's all he wants from you then telling him how you feel is the best you can do.
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