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writes:hi What would your girlfriend/boyfriend have to do for you to consider they have cheated on you? Thanks I'm really confused right now :( x x x x Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2009): Just as everyone else has said, it really depends on what a person perceives as cheating. My husband believes that even thinking about another person in a sexual way, or wanting someone else is cheating because you are taking time away from him. flirting might even be considered cheating.
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reader, SugarCookie  +, writes (9 January 2009):
to me touching a boob or penis out side the clothes on purpose is cheating because it suggest sex and a kiss is enough to end everything, but that is just my feeling on it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2009): i agree with everyone elses comments, although cheating to me is anything that involves another woman that causes you hurt and confusion.
take my ex-boyf, he text his ex-girlfriend for 6 weeks at the start of our relationship. to me that was cheating because it was behind my back and i did not know what he was doing or what they were talking about until it had been going on long enough for it to hurt me. i won't get into his other cheating ways (which did include a 9 week relationship which he is adament he never kissed the girl? eh????)
if he is lying to you and hurting your feelings, then is the relationship really worth it?
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reader, iSmil3y +, writes (9 January 2009):
It really depends on what you think cheating is. For me, if my boyfriend just kissed another girl, I'd consider it as cheating. So it all really depends on what you think cheating is. Hope you're okay.
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reader, S - soadlover :-) +, writes (9 January 2009):
 I think it depends on the people to be honest hun. For some it's just a kiss, personally if my boyfriend kissed another girl and he was drunk then I'd forgive but maybe make him pay a bit ;-) but sober there's no excuse.If he'd slept with someone then I wouldn't but then again it depends on how long you been together or if you're married, if that's the case and if its a one off sleep together then I'd probably stay with them but there would obviously be trust issues. Not if it was a long term affair though.Hope this helps and you're not hurting long x
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2009): It depends on the person, to me a kiss is cheating even though my ex didn't think it was until I did it to him to prove it! It hurt just as much as if he'd slept with someone x
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