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writes:So my girlfriend an I have been along the lines of 2nd base for a bit (touching below and above waist) I have made her orgasm by fingering several times, she has tried to jack me off but we're getting to that. That's not my question though, when I do finger her once I get inside her vagina she will enjoy it until the orgasm. And the second she does, she will pull my hand away and lie there for a minute. Just recently she told me that the thought of me being inside her is disgusting, not during the process of fingering but after the orgasm. She gets a nasty feeling, I know some people feel that way after sex. Anyway how I can change her thought about this digusting feeling after an orgasm?
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reader, michele21 +, writes (4 January 2009):
 Well actually I'm the same way after I orgasm, I just like to lay there for like 2 or 3 mins and recollect my thoughts but I get grossed out becuase of all the cum and wetness, I just like to wipe it off and go at it again, no foreplay though or try taking a shower and having sex, that might make it better, you're already wet so you have that feeling you know..... could be just me though.
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (4 January 2009):
 Most women's genitals after orgasm are very very sensitive to touch (men's are too). In your girlfriend's case, I think hers are just extra sensitive and the thought of anything entering inside her AFTER orgasm is just a turn off because of the sensitivity she feels down below. This is why she likes to lie there afterwards for a minute in order to take it all in and for her body to return to normal again.
Don't take what she says to heart about the thought of you being inside her being disgusting, like you said she means AFTER orgasm! I'm sure she would enjoy the sensual feeling sex gave her before she climaxed. You can't change how she feels about this but she might if you can respect how she feels and just give her plenty of hugs and reassurance.
~Eve~
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2009): There may be a possibility that she may have been abused as a child or may be things her parents have said to her.She may need counselling as it is not normally to feel nasty. She should feel good and loved.Do you know what the nasty feeling is exactly. Is it the extra moisture created or is it emotional? If emotional she needs help.Hope this helped.LOL!
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