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writes:Hey Cupiters! Question for all... I just started a new relationship with this guy. The passion is soooo there but I like to take things slow in the beginning with any guy not just him. You know get to know each other more and go from there...But I've noticed guys have "sex" on their minds a lot. Including my guy! He says it can be frustrating for a guy to be left wanting some, and it hurts! Lol. So, how long is a reasonable time to give it up?!? Or can a guy wait for a girl if she's not ready?Oh, and Valentine's Day is just around the corner, Ahhh the pressure! :-) Reply to this Question
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (27 January 2009):
 Whatever is comfortable and right for you. If not good enough for him, then he is probably not worth it. Sexual relations between lovers are entirely mutual and consenting, or always should be.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2009): guys can wait forever…they have hands…they can masturbate…if you are important to him, then he can wait…he may not want to b/c you're probably teasing the hell out of him and giving him blue balls, but tough luck! haha
you do it whenever you feel comfortable, not b/c anyone pressures you to do it…the longer you make him wait, the more he'll appreciate it later if you do decide to give it up…you don't want to be easy…and you don't want him to lose respect for you or take advantage of you
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reader, :)31215  +, writes (26 January 2009):
 lol
My BF said he gets sexually frustrated while it's "tht time of the month" xD
but he would never pressure me into anything i didnt wanna do. You say this relationship is new?
If you're not ready, then don't do anything... don't let him pressure you either! If he is a decent lad, then he will wait as long as you need, there isn't a set "time".
goood luck :)
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