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Protected sex but fear of pregnancy.

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Question - (26 January 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 27 January 2009)
A male United States age 18-21, *eftformorerules writes:

So my girlfriend and I had sex about a week ago and again 3 nights ago. Both times I used a condom and 100% sure that I never came. But she's worried that she might be pregnant because she just went ill, she has sore breasts, and her period is late. She took a morning after pill this morning so all I'm asking is if there is a possibility she's pregnant.

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A male reader, leftformorerules United States +, writes (27 January 2009):

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Thanks a lot to all you who answered my question. You all seem like pretty smart people and i just wish I can give you the intelligence you have given me in return. But I'm just a normal dude who's not gonna have sex until financially ready ha...

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A female reader, icelordess United States + , writes (26 January 2009):

icelordess agony auntThe morning after pill can wreak havoc on a woman's menstrual cycle...if your girlfriend took it within the 72 hour frame, then its practically certain its going to work. Alot of girls have sore breasts before their period starts, as well as a sign of pregnancy, so don't assume she's pregnant from just that. She's probably got the flu. The more she stresses, the more it can and probably will delay the period. Try to reassure her..I'd bank that she's just fine and NOT pregnant.

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States + , writes (26 January 2009):

TasteofIndia agony auntI second EmilyAnswers answer. I would've written my own, but it pretty much would've been what she wrote, verbatim. So read it twice!

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom + , writes (26 January 2009):

It sounds like there is little to no chance of her being pregnant to me.

Has she been ill SINCE taking the morning after pill, or before.

If it was before then it could be anything, it doesn't have to be pregnancy. If it was since taking the morning after pill then that is your answer. The morning after pill is a giant bomb full of hormones so it's going to mess with everything and have odd effects on her periods and breasts and everything.

Also stress can delay periods so if she is going out of her mind with worry then it's no wonder she is late.

Take her to a movie and have a really good laugh with her tonight and that might sort her out. If not then it might be best to take a test.

Good Luck!! xx

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