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writes:I really wanna date this guy he says he likes me but he said I'm too much of a good friend to date because he doesn't wanna lose me. What do I do?!?!?!?!!?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks all. This situation happened last year and I just wanted to know what it meant. Now we are closer than ever. So I'll see how things continue. :-)
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reader, anonimous123 +, writes (30 December 2009):
in my opinion... i think if i was the best of friends wit sumone, i would still wana date them if i was attracted to them. i think that this person is just not interested in you and doesnt wana hurt ur feelings so he uses ur too good of a friend as an excuse. good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2009): If you two are just friends for now and he doesn't want to lose you... well it is true... because lets just say it doesn't work out very well in the end if you two get together. That could ruin your friendship for life. And if ya cant have him as your man, you're still goin to want him as your friend.
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reader, Rainbolt_G +, writes (29 December 2009):
 I agree with cerberus. He is telling you gently that he is not interested. don't keep the relationship more than just friends unless you want to make the matter worse. find someone that really cares.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2009): There's nothing you can do, that's a nice way of saying he's not interested in you and most likely never was, sorry if that sounds harsh but it's true. You just need to accept it and move on.
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reader, lovelife1437 +, writes (29 December 2009):
It is possible that he doesn't want to be more than friend with you.You might have feelings for him but that doesn't mean he does for you, it's not abnormal. He's being nice saying that he likes you but don't want to date you, it's better than saying that he simply don't want a non-platonic relationship. Don't force it because you'll make him feel uncomfortable and might even lose him as a friend. Good Luck! :-)
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reader, ChantillyMarie  +, writes (29 December 2009):
Well, maybe there's nothing you can do. But obviously he does like you, but he's thinking in the long run.
Maybe he thinks, if you both break up, that your friendship will be ruined and that you're too special to lose.
But to show him how you feel maybe you just need to let time take it's course. Go out on a few dates maybe...
But don't go too fast.
Sorry I couldn't of been of more help.
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reader, doom  +, writes (29 December 2009):
 I'll tell you seriously, when a guy says things like that, it meens you are very close and important person for him, but he won't date you.I'm sorry :(
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