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writes:My ex-girlfriend cheated on me and I was upset at first, eventually got over it, etc. but then somewhere along the line (we were still going out) I began fantasizing about her with other men...sometimes black men, other times one of my friends.I broke up with her after a long relationship for reasons not at all related to infidelity and about five years later (we're still friends), I'll still occasionally fantasize about her being with me and talking dirty to me about how she cheated on me while we're having sex or she's just teasing me. She'll say the guy's name in the fantasy and it will turn me on. Sometimes she also has sex with one of my friends. That also turns me on.What is going on?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2009): Maybe it's your egos warped way of dealing with the pain of having been cheated on.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (27 December 2009):
Well the post below says, maybe you like that kind of thought. Or maybe the truth is the only way you can deal with her cheating and hurting you is to imagine her with other men and imagine it's a good thing?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2009): it is just a fantasy. a very common one at that. i wouldn't suggest fulfilling it with someone you really like though. things like that can wreck a relationship. just keep it in fantasy land if you can manage.
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