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30-35,
*aliMoore
writes:My best male friend told me he loved me, then the next day he told me he was unsure, i thought he said he was unsure about it because he was worried about my reaction if i loved him back, i told him how i felt; that i had strong feelings for him and that i'd like to be more and things were good we started seeing eachother.Long story short, we saw each other for about 2 weeks, he then started acting off and was being blunt and wouldnt really talk, it was as if we were strangers, we didnt speak for days, he then told me he was confused rather he even wanted a relationship, he decided he didnt, and we went back to being friends and things werent the same for a few weeks, then we were back to normal good friends again. Its been almost 2 months since the whole thing started when he told me he loved me, and last night when we were having a normal conversation online both on cam, he started complimenting me, and who would turn down a flattering comment? so i just said thank you and carried on with the conversation; but then he continued to call me gorgeous, saying that he had always thought so, which confused me because he has his chance and he ruined it?!He kept coming with the compliments and said things like 'i dont like breaking hearts, let alone yours, i'd never break your heart' which confused me more.basically he continued with compliments and things like that, and then he went offline.Its just confused me because he told me he loved me, then claimed he didnt; he said he didnt want a relationship so in other words didnt want anything more with me than just friends, which i accepted and kept it at, but now hes changed it and started flirting again and acting different, i accepted his decision and now he thinks he can just have me when he feels like it? like im always there for when he can be asked to bother with me? What would you do in this situation, is there anything i could say or do?any advice would be appreciated, thanks in advance x
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reader, CaliMoore +, writes (28 December 2009):
CaliMoore is verified as being by the original poster of the question i haven't had sex with him, and we have known each other for 2 years, and have been close for the past year.
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reader, feefee stush  +, writes (28 December 2009):
 first of all did you guys hav sex? and how long u were friends wit him?
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reader, love6269  +, writes (28 December 2009):
Haha, that's a guy for ya. If he doesn't know what he feels, and says he loves you one day, but doesn't the next. He doesn't love you. If he really truly loved you, he would tell you and there wouldn't be any questions asked about it. A guy will tell you what you want to hear, just to get what he wants. In most cases, a guy wants sex, and will tell you anything to get it. If he isn't 100% sure about what he feels, don't believe him. Yes, some situations can be confusing, but in most cases, that's how it works.
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