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writes:im falling in love with my work friend and i cant tell him.hes only been there 2 months but i swear by the way we'e connected its like we've known each other 20 years-we laugh,joke,doesnt even feel like being at work. i miss him madly when we're not together. is this normal ??we've had loads of coffees together and i know so much about him in such a short time. this is madness i never expected to feel like this as i only came out of a shitty relationship 9 months ago.the reason i cant tell him my feelings is because hes casually dating someone although he insists theyre not girlfriend/boyfriend-his wife left him 6 months ago so hes very fragile hence taking it slowly. i would never dare do anything to spoil anything. i know he likes me though because he wanted to meet me for a coffee the other day and i texted him after to say thanks and he texted me back 4 u anytime-what does that mean ?im honestly going mad because i really have strong feelings for him should i just forget it or what help plz
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2009): "NO fishing off the Company dock!"
Are you prepared to give up your job if this thing with the guy doesn't work out ? Are you capable of still working with him if he should break your heart??
Is there a company policy about dating coworkers?
Not being a killjoy but "fishing off the company dock" can be ALOT worse if things don't turn out great and wonderful..
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2009): My advise is take a chance. It sounds like you both fancy each other! On the other hand I would give it some time before you get more involved, hince is he being honest with you on causally dating. I have been a a spot where I liked both and said that just to see how far I could go-.. Good Luck and play the game a bit!
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (27 December 2009):
He has said to you he is only dating the other girl casually, and has also said he would like to go out with you for coffee even more. I would suggest you tell him how you feel, and see how he responds. But make sure before anything happens he is not dating the other girl so she can move on. Until he is actually her boyfriend, he's still open.
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