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writes:I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. my best friend we were so close, we did everything together, even having bath together, she was like a sister to me, i felt so comfortable with her. and my best friend and boyfriend were friends from when they were 2 years old, since they are neighbours.she was in a relationship of 2 years and she cheated on her boyfriend regularly like basically every weekend. i always told her to quit doing these things but she didn't listen.i got fed up with her, always the same story, and was friend with another girl. my ex best friend got so jealous of me but i didn't even realise a bit.once we we were in club, and i got drunk! i went outside for some fresh air, and when i got inside i couldn't find my boyfriend so i went to look inside the men's toilet, and i found my best friend and boyfriend get it on together.5 months has passed, and i couldn't still believe what happened to me.. i cant take this picture from my head.what shall i do? i quit school because i cant pay attention, because when i try to concentrate this clear image come back in my mind.
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reader, Shan25  +, writes (2 December 2009):
Wow do you really want to do that to yourself. that feeling that you have will never go away and plus he cheated on you in a place that you guy went together. its sadly funny that he disrespected you in that way and you are still calling him your boyfriend. they got it on in a public place, trust and believe this was not the first time. it was the first time you caught them. when you allow someone to treat you wrong don't get it twisted he will always treat you wrong. i just hope your not the type that makes issues for the reason why a man would cheat on you like blame yourself. be smart and good luck
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reader, Mr Me +, writes (2 December 2009):
 Well, I'd say you're already half way there after ditching the ex friend. She definitely betrayed you with this act, so I'm sure that completely sealed her fate.The other half? Ditch the boyfriend... he cheated on you, so why stick around? Yeah, I know you love him and it would be painful to end such a long relationship. But he obviously doesn't respect you enough to keep to only you.Even if wines and moans that it was an accident and he'd never do it again, don't bother giving him another chance. He did it once, and that's enough.
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