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*lu9009
writes:At my work theres a new guy that has been spending an awful lot of time hanging around me. Hes very nice and respectful and has been flirting with me quite a bit lately. He absoultely gorgeous and i cant get him out of my head. I get so flustered when he's around and find it near impossible to concentrate on my work. I can't think about anything else. He's always giving me silly complements, putting his arm around me (especially around other guys), brushing his hand up against mine, and is obviously jealous of any other guys who try and flirt with me, telling them to leave me alone. he's always asking what a girl like me is doing still single. that he cares about my feelings and why don't I give him a try. Theres a problem with all of this. I dont know his exact age, but I would say hes early to mid 30's. and unmarried with no kids. I worried its just another crush of mine. and don't know if i should pursue anything or just let it go. i want to know if hes true in his intentions. I'm most afraid of what family and friends would think.
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reader, MuffinGirl  +, writes (9 September 2008):
 Still, try and you'll see. You will see he is inappropriate for you or he acts bad, then you will probably forget on him. Don't worry. Just try, but still be careful. I think it's a really good thing what he says to you "i hadn't found the right girl". Maybe he lies, i don't know. But still you'll never know if you don't risk.
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reader, ilu9009 +, writes (7 September 2008):
ilu9009 is verified as being by the original poster of the question If this were any other guy i would be all over him. I dont really get why hes still single. I cant help but wonder if theres something wrong with him. like hes a perv or a player. when i asked why hes single he just looked me in the eyes and said he hadn't found the right girl. i feel like this is just another crush im going through, everytime he.s near me i get a horrible case of butterflies. ive found myself hopping out of bed in the morning, anxious to see him when i com in. i'm sure it will fade.
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reader, MuffinGirl +, writes (7 September 2008):
I'd say, try and you'll see. If you will see he just want to have sex with you and nothing else, then stop yourself. Don't worry about family, when you're in love you don't see any other things. I think you should answer a question on the top by yourself, but in my opinion it doesn't matter if it's a crush or you're in love. Take your time, there's no need to hurry. You will answer to all your questions with a little more time. Ages are not so important, you're old enough to do whatever you like. Relax and don't analyze so much.
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