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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:In a LDR for many years pretty close relationship we were looking towards a visa and overall serious connection. He broke up with me because he says I kept doing things that bothered him such as he would warn me don't go spend the money on that you don't have the money for that and then i would anyways. He said I don't listen well and it turns out to be worse later and that he wasn't going to put up with it. I am doing no contact now and just working on myself. The last time we talked in a chat conversation he says we can still talk just mitigate the reminding him of the situation, i asked him if he missed me he said yes i do miss you. And i asked him do you feel talking will help us rebuild the relation and he said right now there is no working it out. Does he seem open to working this out later? Am I right to do no contact? Do I just see if he contacts me first, or is it better to do a random hi here and there when i see him online? I would like to rekindle this relationship if possible but not until he wants this and I feel improved as a person.. but I am not sure if later he will return.. Ideas pls. Thanks
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reader, claireleatherdale  +, writes (9 September 2008):
 i think he's confused about every thing at the moment and yes he might consider getting back with you when he sorts himself out don't badger the guy instead of saying hi every time he's on line say it every once in a while then that leaves the ball in his court to get in touch with you when he's ready but he then cant say u pushed him because if u chat 2 him as a friend and let him bring up getting back with u u'll know that he truely wants 2 be with u i hope this helps xx
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