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writes:Me and my fiance have sex all the time. We love eachother and would die for one another, what we have is something special. We werent always like this. I was afraid to kiss her for the first 3 months we dated and after that i was terrified of sexual realtions. We were both virgins and gave our virginity to eachother. Ever since we had sex we just have it all the time... I know she loves me and i love her, but should i worry about this or just accept it as another normal change in our relationship?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks i geuss your right, just be happy we have a good sex life ^.^
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2008): Not normal. Well, not by Danish standards anyway.
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reader, lexilou  +, writes (8 September 2008):
 Its quite normal to be at it like rabbits when you first start dating. the more sex you have the more chemicals that your release this helps you fall in love and makes you want even more sex. Usually things start to slow down a bit but varies between couples. We have been together 5 years and average at least 3 or 4 times a week still, although sometimes with work and 3 kids and a very busy life we may not have sex for a week or so and then have it every day for a week, or even twice a day if the kids are all at school/college. So if you enjoy it dont worry about it x
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reader, SugarCookie +, writes (8 September 2008):
Its normal after my fiance and i started having sex (which we are eachothers onlys) for the first about 8 months we would have sex at least 8 times a day. It will eventually slow down but enjoy it now while it lasts.
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reader, Replacement  +, writes (8 September 2008):
 Accept it, embrace it, enjoy it!
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (7 September 2008):
As long as you are happy with it and your relationship isn't just about sex then no problem.
Continue to use protection. If she is not on the pill you should think about that too as using that AND condoms will pretty much keep you completely safe.
Enjoy and have fun!
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2008): As long as you are using protection against pregnancy, what is the problem. If both of you are the only partners ever then STIs should not be a problem. A lot of guys of all ages would love to be in your situation. Of course, I have to ask your definition of "all the time". Do you mean every day, twice a day, 4 times a day or just a few times a week when you are together? If it is 4 times a day, every day of the week then I might say to cut back a bit. If it is like every week day and 2 or 3 times a day on the weekend then that is about perfect. However, enjoy it while it lasts. If you are lucky, it will last for many years to come.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2008): This sounds very normal and healthy to me. I think you should not worry or stress about something that other couples are hoping to have.Enjoy and stay honest to each other. Communicate your feelings,, needs and fears with each other.Best wishes and have a wonderful future.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (7 September 2008):
 Accept it as a blessing that came to you like manna from the Heavens. Cherish it while it lasts. ENJOY, MAN!!!! If you wish, we can trade problems, will you? Let me worry about sex all the time...
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reader, x..BabyGirl..x +, writes (7 September 2008):
 Most people would love a kicking sex life. Thank yourselves lucky. The average couple have sex twice a week I think I read roughly. And more than 50% wish they had sex more often. I don't think it's something you should worry about, unless you're not using condoms and then you're in trouble.
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