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writes:hime and my boyfriend have been going out for nearly 9 months. we have both said we love each other...my friends think we should break up..my problem is he confuses me by saying stuff like my boobs are to small he can be a jerk and mean . i always try to be very confident and positive. but he gets me down...and he doesnt seem to have any desire for me this hurts..what do i do ? (have tried denying him)
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reader, x..BabyGirl..x  +, writes (8 September 2008):
 Most people are because they think it will get better and hang around until it does, but it wont.
You wont be isolated, tell your mum what's going on and she'll tell you the same and will support you, your friends will also offer support.
He needs a wake up call to what he's doing and leaving him is the only way to give him the wake up call.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyeah i did sorta already know this.
but the problem im finding is i already feel really isolated...and i think im afriad to let go...
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reader, Aunty Em +, writes (7 September 2008):
 You need to get rid. Your PARTNER, the guy who is supposed to love you, support you and boost your confidence, is making you feel like utter s**t. Why are you with him at all? Ask yourself.
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reader, supermum +, writes (7 September 2008):
 I am afraid that your friends are right. You need to nip this in the bud right now, it will only get worse. If you let him get away with it he will do it to more people, not just you.
Good luck
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reader, belladonna123  +, writes (7 September 2008):
Honey, the answer is simple. Get rid of him. He's not treating you with the respect you deserve. saying that you're boobs are small? you gotta be kidding me. Tell him to get lost. He's only going to make you lose your confidence.Find someone who appreciates you more.
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reader, SugarCookie  +, writes (7 September 2008):
I would leave him verbal abuse is just a first step. he is trying to make you think that you cant get anyone else and then he will start controlling who you see to ruin your relationships and then there is a good chance that he will start to be physically abusive after you have no one to run to.
Meet someone who will treat you better.
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reader, x..BabyGirl..x +, writes (7 September 2008):
I think you already know the answer in your heart. You deserve so much better, no woman deserves to be treated like that.
If you want my honest opinion, I think you should move on, I'm agreeing with your friends.
Don't let him treat you bad and get away with it.
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