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writes:Picture this, one guy is getting penetrated helplessly and the other is DOING the penetration. Theyre both enjoying it, which guy is more masculine or "manly" and why?Now the guy who is being penetrated cums because he got penetrated for...too long. Hows does your perception of both guys change?Thanks everyone! Reply to this Question
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reader, gayguy16  +, writes (11 September 2008):
 yeah, I don't think it really matters, I go both ways and am not pariculerly feminine(sorry bout spelling), I just think its preference to whether an individuel want it up them or to put it up someone else in sence lololol hope this helps
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2008): I don't really think that it matters. Your both men (or transgenders(not that that is a bad thing)). Especially if you take turns. And that anonomous reader from the 4th is full of shit.
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reader, Joe158 +, writes (4 September 2008):
 haha i laughed when i saw this. Well firstly being manly or feminine has nothing to do with sex. As a gay guy myself i can honestly say it's the truth.
Being a Top (penetrating) or a bottom (receiving) has absolutely nothing to do with how masculine a person is. A guy can be the most masculine guy in the world and still prefer receiving than giving.
It seems from your post that you are going through some personal issues and are confused with the whole gay sex idea.
Ok so from your idea what would happen if there were 2 big masculine guys, does that mean they won't have anal sex? No, they most likely will.
Giving or Receiving is totally a matter of what feels better to you, or hey - you could like both and do whatever you feel like. What you're doing in sex is a preference, just like what's your favourite colour or what's your favourite food. It's different for different people.
So if you're worried if your manlyness will go away if you start receiving anal sex (which is what it seems like from your post) then don't worry. Just dp what you feel most comfortable with.
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify +, writes (4 September 2008):
 either- just remeber that you can easily damage the anus and incontinence in your twenties is more than a little embarrassing so take care...
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (4 September 2008):
Well when a woman and man have sex, she is the one getting penetrated but she is in charge. She tells him how fast or slow to go, she tells him to stop or start.
She is the boss.
I imagine it is the same for gay men. They both have power in their own way.
Either that or they just both take turns.
My perception of both guys stays the same because what they do in the bedroom is their business. I don't really care.
Anyone who judges them on that has some serious issues.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2008): A man is a man. They're both manly.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (4 September 2008):
 Mmm, you got issues mate and I pity any woman who is with you. Women are helpless because they are the ones penetrated?
Work out your insecurities and leave others to lead their own lives.
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