I'm not calling this guy again but why did he give me his number? He never responded!

A female age 51-59, *helljade41 writes:

Ok, now what happens when the case is this: I had a terrible fall out with my boyfriend and I went out to think things over and in fact I was thinking I should leave him, because he did something I felt was really wrong.Our relationship was not going well for sometime now, but this had triggered off what I call the final ending. I then ended up in a nice place where I met a nice man, he just sat down and we started talking, we talked for about 3 hours, and when he asked me about my relationship status I told him what had happened and he told me that he thought what my boyfriend had done was selfish of him and that I shouldn't call him back. Then we went on talking for a while. The evening went really smooth and I felt we were both oddly attracted to each other, I say oddly because I wasn't in any mood to feel any kind of attraction for no one, since the argument with my boyfriend had me feeling real bad. This new man was very attentive,thoughtful, caring, sweet and open. And there was also a physical attraction as well, that had me wondering what was going on all the time. At the end of our evening he handed me his phone number. After I realized I hadn't given him mine I scribbled it on paper and gave him my number also. After 2 days had passed and he hadn't called, I was wondering if he didn't wanted to call cause he didn't know if I was still into my relationship, and as he was the first to give me his number I decided to call him up. He answered and he sounded thrilled to hear from me.During the conversation I told him I had called it quits with my boyfriend, he said: well yes, that is sad but it's better for you, just go ahead with life! After some minutes of more chatting he told me he was running late for work (which I know it's true as he has to be at his job at a certain time and it was late by then)and told me he would call me back (didn't say when, though) Well, the case is that 5 days have passed and he hasn't called. I learned that I have a phone line problem at my home phone because many people have called and they say that they hear no tone. But I also gave him my cel phone, so I am here trying to understand what could be going on?? Am I overanalyzing this? Are 5 days too long? I just wish I could understand what could be going on in his mind. I don't know what to do. I am not calling him again, but I wonder if he lost my number or what, so I am thinking I could possibly drop by (in two more days) the place where we met (he works there) just to take a bite and see what happens when he sees me. I guess that by his reaction I could easily get the signals, but I don't want him to think that I am stalking him or something of the sort. What do you think? Can you give me some advice please, my head is spinning with doubts and uncertainty..

View related questions: hasn't called, stalking

Reply to this Question

Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!

A female reader, Shelljade41  +, writes (5 September 2008):

1 2 3 4 5

<-- Rate this answer

A female reader, Blue_Angel0316  +, writes (4 September 2008):

1 2 3 4 5

<-- Rate this answer

A female reader, Shelljade41  +, writes (4 September 2008):

1 2 3 4 5

<-- Rate this answer

A female reader, Blue_Angel0316  +, writes (4 September 2008):

1 2 3 4 5

<-- Rate this answer

A female reader, Blue_Angel0316  +, writes (4 September 2008):

1 2 3 4 5

<-- Rate this answer

A female reader, Shelljade41  +, writes (4 September 2008):

1 2 3 4 5

<-- Rate this answer

A female reader, Blue_Angel0316  +, writes (4 September 2008):

1 2 3 4 5

<-- Rate this answer

A female reader, sappygirl  +, writes (4 September 2008):

1 2 3 4 5

<-- Rate this answer