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Would it be wise if I go back to my ex when there's a new guy who can bring me happiness?

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Question - (4 September 2008) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Ok, so here's the deal:

Awhile back (about 7 months ago), I found out that my boyfriend of 4 months had cheated on me (had another girlfriend where he lives, it was long-distance). We had been really good friends before that. For about two months we didn't talk and then he texted me. We started talking again and then he tried to tell me that he had never cheated on me in the first place. I put up with that and gave him the benefit of the doubt for about a month. Then, I realized how stupid I was being, and stopped talking to him. Then, we started talking again and now we're good friends. Nothing has ever really been "normal" with us, so that 's why we're friends, I guess. Thing is, he says he never stopped caring about me, and even though he's had a REALLY funny way of showing it, I believe him. I also never fell out of love with him. I could seriously picture myself spending the rest of my life with this guy.

Also, I really like another guy who goes to my school, and I think he likes me back. He's awesome and smart and nice and Christian (as am I. Well, so is the other guy) and, more importantly, he lives HERE. I can see him more than like once every two months, which is how often I saw my ex. He is also a potential "that ONE guy". So, my questions are:

1. How do I get over the first guy while still being his friend?


2. Who should I choose?

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