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writes:i started seeing this girl just before i was about to transfer to the army from the navy. i made it very clear that i was transferring and she was fine with that. After training i decided to leave the army so i could take our relationship to the next level. We are now engaged. The problem is she wants to leave the navy now solely for me and i dont want her to do this as i know she likes it and there is lots of things she still wants to do. I do want her to leave but dont want her to feel she has missed out on anything
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reader, zelgamer  +, writes (25 September 2008):
 I'm in a dual military relationship, and I'm leaving the Army for my wife, but the difference with me is I want out now. I don't want to worry about deployments while trying to raise a family.
You want her to not make a hasty decision, that's very generous of you! In the same token you do want her out as well, my recommendation is to sit down, and assure her that you support whatever decision she makes, but to think it through. Talk to her about the positives and negatives of her leaving, and remind her that she likes it. Best of luck, I hope to hear the results so make sure to keep us updated!
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