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writes:You swap numbers with someone (just as friends) that you have known in the pub for a few months and they txt a couple of days later asking if your well and saying have a nice day, you reply, then they invite you round for a cup of tea, you have a good chat for a couple of hours, go home, then they txt the next day saying enjoyed last night thanks.Do you think they like you just as a friend?Do guys in their mid 30's actually want female friends or do they really want more? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNever heard of a sweeping generalisation being a question! More a statement usually.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2008): I beg to differ!!
Your question was "Do guys in their mid 30's actually want female friends or do they really want more?"
To my mind that's a sweeping generalisation! (and it was answered as such).
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIf you read the question, it was just that, a question, no generalisations in that paragraph whatsoever.
Thanks anyway though. Spoke to him last night and he seems to like me more than he was letting on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2008): It's impossible to generalise like that. Some people would just want to be friendly, others might be looking for sex, still more might be looking for a relationship in the long term. Whatever age group they may be in will have absolutely no bearing on what they're looking for - if anything at all!
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (25 September 2008):
 Why should we WANT female friends. You might end up with one but why specifically go out and try to find one just for the purpose of being friends with and nothing more? When you do NOT have someone already?
Anyway, even if you are friends, few men would say no to sex. We are men, we don't think about it constantly or obsess about sex, we just take it where and when we can get it.
If you want to be just friends, make this clear from the start and then he can either be a friend or leave you alone or persist.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2008): Who suggested good friends? you or him?
Sounds like a common case of confussion. Sounds like you want more, so make it clear to him, then he will proceed if he's into you.
Maybe its a case of you both fearing rejection.
Good luck
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