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female
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13-15,
anonymous
writes:Did he really love me,?This lad fancied me for a while, well about 3 months b4 i decided to get with him, then like about 1 month in the relationship, i found out he was going to dump me to get back with one of his ex-gf's. i was sad but then he said he didnt tho. he stayed with me becos he realised he really did love me and didnt wont to lose me, so i forgave him and we were normal again. Then a week or so later i got a bit annoyed with him becos he always called me short and made fun of me, it wasnt nice, it was just past a joke, so i said i didnt like it and we nearly broke up about it, but i forgave him and it got back to normal again. Then a week or so after that, he was talking behind my back to his ex-gf,tht he was going to dump me for, saying he and her should try and get me and my m8 C together and i got mad at him when she told me wot he had said, and i confronted him, he said he was sorry and wud i please for give him, i asked him 'if he really loved - me y wud he say tht behind my back that he wonted to make me get with another lad?' He said 'he loved me and he was sorry' so i forgave him, AGAIN. And it carried on like normal, he ocasionaly called me a whore, slag, gimp, div, bitch, but i forgave him becos i loved him, then the other day he dumped me and got with his ex-gf, he was going to dump me for b4, then dumped her and came bk to me asking me to take him back, becos he realised i was the one he loved and he wonted to try again and make it workMy answer was no!! i have had enough of you !!, messin me about, its not fair!then after a few days he told me he still loved me, but also told my best mate he fancied her. i dont wont to get back with him, i just want to know if he actually loved me or was he playing me ?
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reader, JennayyyCx3  +, writes (20 September 2008):
 I hate to say it but that is not love. My boyfriend wouldnt DREAMMMMM of calling me those things. You dont do that to the one you love, actually you dont do it to anyone because thats so disrepectful..esp to a girl. Yeah he played you, DO NOTTTT go back to him..hes gonna do the whole "i-really-love-you-she-means-nothing-to-me" things..but dont fall for it..your smarter than that and boys like that will go noooo where.
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