A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi. My boyfriend of a year and a half started acting strangely and told me his hernia was acting up. The following weekend, we were partying and he broke down and said he had let some strange woman give him a blow job in his truck after a night out with the guys. He thought he may have caught an STD and was avoiding me. He said he couldn't live with himself and had to tell me. I want to forgive him and move forward, but now I do not trust him. What would you do?
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reader, teencitizen92 +, writes (20 September 2008):
if she gave him a blow job he couldnt have gotten an std.
he would only have gotten one if he went down on her?
but tell him to get checked to just be safe. but if thats all that trully happened then he shouldnt.
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female
reader, JennayyyCx3 +, writes (20 September 2008):
Personally i would break up with him. If you are the girl he is dating then he shouldnt need to be having those experiences with anyone besides you. Thats a sketchy character and he can do the whole "i-felt-so-bad-i-had-to-tell-you" thing..but that shouldnt of needed to happen. It basiclly comes down to your self esteem..if its high, you will leave him..if its low you will think that you could never find a guy like him or any guy(which is better than a cheater) so you will stay with him..so i leave you with the decision.
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