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anonymous
writes:My girlfriend had an abortion ten days ago. When she went to the clinic she kissed me and said it wasn't going to be a big deal, but ever since then she seems really depressed. I text her and she doesn't reply. I went to her house and she says she's "busy". Then I saw her in the Uni computer lab and she was looking at those pictures of mutilated fetuses. I asked her if she was feeling okay and she started yelling at me and saying that I pressured her into an abortion (which is not true, I said I'd support her either way). We haven't broken up, but every time I try to talk to her she's cold and distant.I'm just really worried about her and wondering if she'll go into a breakdown, 'cause I hear some people don't take abortion well at all.
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reader, tammye17 +, writes (23 September 2008):
 hi, i know it must be really hard for u both and in past experience...because i had one 2...it really traumatises a woman....it's a pain that i can't describe and iam pretty sure your girl must be going throught hell...justbe there for her and be patient...its going to take alot for her to get over this......maybe even years....heres a site that can help....hope.org...it deals with abortion isues
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reader, sappygirl +, writes (19 September 2008):
 it's finally hitting her and it's going to take a while to get over this. Emotionally and physically. The only thing you can do is be there for her and support her any way you can. I think the best way is to write it in a heartfelt letter to her. Tell her that you love her, support her.
That there is no way you can understand she what she is going through, but you will always be there for her. She is angry and resentful at you because although you didn't push her to get an abortion. You probably didn't push her to keep it either.
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reader, Dear Danielle  +, writes (19 September 2008):
 She might have made it out not to be a big deal but it obviosly was
Did you discuss this theroli before she did it cos that would have helped
my friend is 17 and she had an abortion and was like that but her boy friend supported her and was there wen she did eventually need him and they got threw it together if ur like that u will make it threw
i really wish you luk 4 this 1 hunnii i really do
GOOD LUK
Danielle xox
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