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writes:See, well I liked this girl(C) and she liked me back. But after a while we grew apart but I still have feelings for her. And there's this other girl who I kinda like as well (I)she likes me back too. But I the first girl wants me back and I cant choose between them because I don't wanna hurt anyone. I really need help. Reply to this Question
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reader, StudentOfLife  +, writes (19 September 2008):
 That's a good problem to have if you ask me.
Like Aunty Em said, sometimes when you have 2 choices and you really don't know what to take. Don't take anything and wait for your mind to have a clear decision.
When it comes to situations like that, it's best that you think about yourself than anything else. Which girl will you be able to give more love too? Which girl will you be able to love easier? The other will feel sad for a bit but will get over it.
I would tell you to take both at the same time, but don't think they would like that uh?
Hope it helps, have a nice day! :)
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reader, Aunty Em  +, writes (19 September 2008):
 If you feel like you can't choose - choose neither. That way, neither girl will feel like they're in competition with the other and neither of them will be hurt, well, not as much as they would be if you chose one of them.
But, would choosing neither of them hurt you? Or would you feel ok?
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reader, CNKlives  +, writes (19 September 2008):
There isn't very much information here but whenever I can't figure out something I make a list of pro's and con's. So make a column for C and one for I and under it make a list of pro's and a list of con's. Here is where it becomes tricky, you need to rate how important each of these pro's and con's are on a scale of 1 to 4. If it is something that is a pro but doesn't matter that much then make it a one, if it is a huge deal make it a 4. Then total up the scores. Unfortunately picking a girlfriend isn't as easy as a math problem but at least you will get out everything you like and dislike about each one. This will make a decision easier..
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