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My boyfriend enjoys getting period blood over him, is this normal?!

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Question - (17 September 2008) 7 Answers - (Newest, 16 October 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 22-25, anonymous writes:

Me and my boyfriend are both 16. Weve been going out for seven months and we both lost our virginty to each other around 4 months ago.

I was just wondering if this is normal that my boyfriend likes to finger me whilst im on my period ( i only ever use tampons) and he asked me if he could lick me out without anything on, and i asked him why and he said cos it turns him on even more, and makes him want to do it even more because he no's that hes not allowed.

He said its like the same thril almost as having sex outside because you no your not ment to do that. Weve also had sex whilst ive been on my period and theres been blood all over him, and he just wipes it off without a care in the world, and when i asked if he minded and he said no, why would i, its natural.

Is this how most men think? or is my boyfriend just strange? thanks x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2008):

well if he is ok with it, then i dont see the problem just enjoy it and relax.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2008):

who cares? you get shit off him either way! you'll never miss out. why complain?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2008):

hmm... i wouldent say if its not "normal" or not but i think that a guy that doesent mind "natural" things about the body is pretty cool! If you dont like it tell him if you do then i guess its going pretty good!!

April, age 15-16

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2008):

i am really horny when im on my period and i guess most girls are,ive never had sex with my fella as he as never responded in that way even though i have hinted,yet he is able to touch me if i have a tampon inserted,your a very lucky girl wish my fella would go down on me it is a fantasy of mine and i truly believe he wont ever turn it into reality

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (17 September 2008):

Well he may be a little kinky about wanting to go down there but as long as you are ok with it, who cares?

As long as he doesn't take the next step and tell you he wants to bite your neck and drink your blood, where is the harm? (I'm joking!)

My man is a medic so blood doesn't phase him either, but I can't stand the look and smell so won't let him near me haha.

Good Luck!! xx

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (17 September 2008):

Danielepew agony auntI usually avoid the word "normal" regarding human behavior regarding sex. If your boyfriend likes this, that's his thing. If YOU don't like it, then tell him. Some women don't want sex during their periods, and guys need to respect that.

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A female reader, Hopeful Romantic United States +, writes (17 September 2008):

Hopeful Romantic agony auntA lot of guys out there either like it or don't care (I am speaking of people I know of course). Most of my boyfriends in the past didn't mind, but my boyfriend now, would prefer for me not to be on it - or if I am on it, he doesn't want it to be heavy and I always lay a towl down under us.

But yeah, it's okay that he likes it as long as you are okay with it. It is less normal for him to want to go down on you during that time - I have only known of one other person that didn't mind that - so you have yourself a little bit of a kinky man - but as long as you two are into it - go for it and have fun. :)

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